Time to say goodbye
Hi friends and family,
This is Caleb and I am writing you from Dominican Hospital in Santa Cruz, CA. Just a few days ago dad's health quickly and dramatically declined. The dramatic change in his health was a shock to most everyone, even dad's most trusted doctor said, 'I did not see this coming, I'm sorry.' Dad has been diagnosed with a severe case of pneumonia and at the time the doctors were giving him very little chance of survival. The call went out to the family for everyone to gather and essentially say goodbye. Around 14 family members gathered together as we were preparing to say goodbye.
Dad's condition before the pneumonia was not good but there were signs of him getting a little better and he wanted to fight and stay alive. He needed aggressive treatment, whether that was traditional treatment here in the states, or progressive treatment overseas. The size and the placements of the tumors, however, were making it impossible to get this treatment. Dad was unable to eat because of the tumors and he had become much to weak for full blown chemo and radiation. Similarly, the facilities overseas saw dad as to high of a risk with the blockage and to weak to travel. The only option was a fairly low dose of a specific type of chemo that dad could handle in his weak state. The hope and prayer was that it would shrink the tumors enough so he could eat and gain strength as well as unblock the colon. This would allow him to meet the requirements for the overseas facilities and/or begin aggressive traditional treatment.
We knew that the chemotherapy would destroy the rest of dad's immune system, but this was the option we had and dad wanted to fight so we left it in God's hands and began treatment. He was handling the chemo well and he even began to eat small amounts of solid food and past stool for the first time in a long time. For the most part this was dad's condition a few days ago. He was extremely sick, but showing signs of progression and undoubtedly had the will to fight on.
Overnight this changed. Mom woke up and dad was unresponsive with laboured breathing. It was not long after that dad was in ICU with the pneumonia diagnosis. I had seen dad just a week before, but I was still shocked at what I saw. It goes without saying, there was no shortage of tears as our eyes looked on dad in a condition no one ever thought would reach such a loving, strong man. The doctors began dad on antibiotics and the prayers went out. Thank God he began to recover and he was becoming coherent. He knew his family was surrounding him and he knew how much he is loved. Our hopes were elevated at this point that he would beat the pneumonia and continue the fight. The next day, however, dad was having minor surgery to change the system that was draining the fluids from his stomach when the doctors saw an irreversible infection. They could not stop the fluid completely from leaking into his stomach and could not control the infection therefore.
This was it, the final prognosis. Dad has been given days to live and he will be cared for here in the hospital until then.
The Lord is good though and He has left us so much to be thankful for. Dad is coherent, he knows his prognosis and the fact that he will be dying soon. We have watched dad as he lived a life that has brought God glory and we are observing a man of faith as he gives God glory in his death. We have all been able to talk to him privately and tell him how thankful we
are for his life and how we love and will miss him. Likewise, dad has been able to express his thoughts and feelings towards all of us. Furthermore, his pain has not been out of control at all and he has not had to be over medicated. Today he has not had to have IV morphine for 12 hours now. Again, God has worked it out so that we get to see amazing faith at work in dad and it is genuine apart from mind altering medication, so that there is no doubt to the source of dad's strength. My mom has found the strength to tell dad that it is ok for him to leave her and she told him with a heart of faith that she will be ok. As of now, we gather everyday at the hospital and enjoy our time with dad. He has been enjoying ice cream, popsicles and his family as he confidently prepares to get his new body and meet the Lord.
This is now your chance to tell him how you feel. He is coherent and would love to hear from you on Posthope.
Please post any messages and photos here: http://posthope.com/gary-barton/posts
For now it is only a small amount of family allowed at the hospital, but this may change. If dad does decide on a time for more family and friends to come and say goodbye we will post it asap. As for now take this opportunity which was given to us to share your heart.
Thank you all for your loving support.
Comments (67)
We love and are in awe of you and Christ in you,, God bless, Connie. You have found the good fight,
It was exactly a year ago that me and my family went to DSVC to meet the men that would be my daughters coach for the season, from that day you became a fixture in our lives not just by watching you navigate with this amazing 12 year old girls but also on stage at Southwest church playing the bass guitar. Your demeanor, the way you treated those girls, the way you communicate with the parents, and the way you conduct yourself has been truly an inspiration. When we found out you were sick, we have prayed every single day for you and your family, both with our family and our small group. Your family has given us an amazing gift, the gift of seeing in action what a true Christian is about, we are always told to praise God even in the storm, and I see you and your family honor that commitment. We thank you for everything you do, even today, the encouragement you give me to lead my family, and a real example of what a man of God should be. Blessing Enrique Braunschweiger with Kris, Alex and Austin
Love you Gary. Always have. Always will.
Gary, You are an inspiration to us all. Having you in our daughters lives has been such a blessing. Sitting with you between games at club events, getting to know your lovely wife and hearing how proud you sounded when talking about your family. Your family has demonstrated the strength you have instilled in them and a true faith in God and how God's works are truly remarkable. We continue to pray for you and your family every day. God's Blessing - Gary, Laurie, Kierstin and Cassidy LaSalle
Coach Gary: My family and I wish your peace and comfort. I'm thankful and honored to have you a part of my life. Thank you Coach..... you have shown by example everything that is good and kind! All of the La Quinta High School Volleyball family sends their love and prayers to you and your family. I'm playing for you tonight Coach!!!!!
Uncle Gary you are so loved and you leave behind so much love. Your faith in Christ makes all this more bearable and it's a promise that through Christ we will see you again. Go in peace, we love you so much
God Bless You Gary! Your fight has been so impactful on me and my family! You have proved the true meaning of faith. You will never know how encouraging your persistent faith has been for us. I praise God that I know you and I will continue to keep the entire Barton family in my prayers. 1 Peter 5:10 And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. Romans 8:18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. God Bless you! Thank You! Clifton & Sheila Cooper
Oh Gary, I wish I could say "see you soon" in person...I have so many wonderful memories...they'll be with me till I see you again. Until then, know that you are loved and remembered well.
I am so honored to have known you, Gary, be your friend, and fellow servant of our Lord. I will never forget the first time I met you in 1970 and how impressed I was with your talents and your accepting attitude for me a new-comer to Twin Lakes. And I'll always treasure the many times we have ministered together in music ministry, whether playing in "Heaven's Country" together or watching you portray our Lord as you hung from a cross during our Easter Program in 1993. And I have always appreciated your genuine encouragement to me. I can remember you visiting the church here after you had moved and the word you used to describe a song we had done was "awesome." Always encouraging. Thank you, Gary. And I will never forget your smile especially the other day in the hospital. It reminded me of your dad and the way he smiled at me back in 1970 at the graveside for my brother who died in a car accident. You have touched a lot of lives, Gary, and mine is definitely one of them. The affect of your faithful life will live on in all of our lives. I love you, brother, and I look forward to an awesome reunion in glory with you, all the saints, and our blessed Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Dan Baker
Gary: I have many fond memories growing up with you. All the fun stuff we'd do around the house on 13th., Plus, the beach and the Boardwalk. Remember we used to jump off a small cliff on to the sand? Then Chris broke her leg and we ran home to tell our parents. And I remember you said that she's probably faking it—until she came home with a giant cast on her leg! Those good times shaped my life in some way, and you were part of it. And now I've watched my son surf Steamers, just like I used to watch you surf. Though we haven't been in touch in recent years, I can tell that you have been the kind generous guy who was full of optimism and encouragement as I remembered. You used to encouarge me to surf. (Sorry, I never got that good.) Someday we'll ride awesome swells in Heaven with a perfect off-shore breeze. Love Jeff
Gary, your courage and faith in Christ in the midst of suffering and facing death is a beautiful testimony to all and brings Glory to God. I pray that the presence of God will be so strong in your room that all who enter will know He is there, that many will be brought closer to God or into relationship with Him because of you. May you feel His arms holding you His angles surrounding you. "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints." Psalms 116:15 You are his precious saint and He love you and your family so much and will provide for them. Till we meet in heaven, Kathy
Gary, you have blessed so many lives through work, volleyball, music, and church. The Manthey family (Jeannine, Nicole, Terra, and Heather) was truly blessed to have been a part of worship team with you at Our Savior's. Dawn and family, we are praying peace and comfort over you all. God Bless you all.
Oh Gary, I'm going to Ditto what Dan Baker wrote plus add some. Until my own time is up I'll always have that image of you up on the cross in 1993 with only that ittybitty cloth. Then...the very next day...there you were...up on my second story scaffolding putting the roof trusses in place with Mark It was just too much. Remember how I teased you and laughed? I could not handle that image! The "carpenter" really was the carpenter that week! That was easily the best time in my life. Every moment I've spent in my home since then I've been grateful for you and Mark. This roof has seen many ministries in it and blessed many, and we all thank you. Because of you and Mark I went out and built homes for Habitat...the ripple effect. Be with God, my friend. I'll see you there!
Gary, you have been generous and kind in opening your home to recovering women and taking a back seat to everyone while they were learning about God's love for them. You were always doing things to serve others. It won't be long and you will hear the words, "Well done, my good and faithful servant. Enter in to your rest," And in the blink of an eye we will join you and spend eternity praising Jesus and hanging out with Him and one another. Thanks so much for impacting our lives with a true Christian witness. We love you. We will continue to pray for your family. In His great love, Jan
Gary, you are an incredible example to all of us. You have faced this with such faith and trust in God. Thank you for letting us be a part of your battle through Posthope. I have many memories of you Gary, mostly of you being a servant to others, but what stands out to me the most was the support you were to me when I needed it. I love you and pray that God sends comfort to you and your family. God bless all of you. See you on the other side my brother!
Gary, what an inspiration you have been to those of us who have only prayed, while you have shown enormous strength in your faith and literally fought every single day for just one more day. You have been given permission to stop fighting and go home to God. I’m so proud to have known you, so glad to have had the opportunity to work with you even a little bit, and can only say you’ve always set an example of the right way to make things happen. Your faith, and that of Dawn and your family, is extraordinary and an example for all who have witnessed it. We continue praying for your peace and comfort.
Gary, My dad and I are blessed that we got to meet you in Atlanta! You are one of my heroes and a true man of God!!! You are in my prayers!!!! I love you, brother!!!!!
Hey Gary...I've been following the updates that your son and wife are posting and this has been the most difficult one to read. When I had the good luck to run into you in Oceanside this summer, I thought huh, he looks good! A little lighter but I could tell you were putting up a good fight! I don't really know how to say goodbye to you on a website, so I'm just going to say "see you soon Gary". Thats the blessing that we all have in Gods promise to us that we will see each other again! And you above most have exemplified that in your patience, guidance, and inner strength. Without ever wondering, its easy for anyone to tell that you love Jesus. I think you got your halo status when you coached Farrens senior team to CIF! No one else could have accomplished what you did with those girls that year! And Gabbys team...you were exactly who those girls needed that year as a coach and a mentor. She loves you so much Gary....keep an eye on her please!! We all love you...and we WILL ALL SEE YOU AGAIN! Farren, kaz, Gabby, Neal and me...see you soon my friend. Caroline Halcovich
Dearest Gary and family....our friendship began with volleyball something near and dear to your heart. You have always been the number one supporter of my girls, Eryn & Alex. Before anyone else knew their talents you recognized their passion and love for the game and it sill shines today. Gratefully each excelled in their own way and I cannot tell you how proud it makes me to see them sitting side-by-side coaching together....a far cry from them playing together back at La Quinta HS. Thank you for believing in them! We adore you Gary! Greg, Eryn, Alex and I always say what an incredible man, husband, father and person of God you are. You are something special....someone who touches a life and one who is never forgotten. God bless you my friend with hugs and love!
Gary, I wanted to say thanks so much for being the man you are! One of the first times I remember meeting you was after a Sunday morning a few years back... I had seen you play bass on stage before however we never really had spoken besides the brief 'hello' in passing... but on that morning you came up to me and you mentioned how you used to be a part of a Surf Ministry. I remember asking you 'why are you living here then (why am I living here)'... we both laughed and shot the breeze for a bit about Santa Cruz. Little did I know that a year or so later you would be my daughter, Myka's, Volleyball Coach at DSVC. You introduced my daughter to a game she has learned to love -- and you did it with gentleness, grace and encouragement. Anyone that has been around ten 12-13 year old girls knows at times it's difficult to be gentle and grace filled to 12-13 year olds -- however you did it in an amazing way. Over that volleyball season I watched the way you guided the girls and the way you inspired them.... and I was able to watch from a far and I admire your patience, peace and positivity. Gary thanks for living your life in such a way that it really is a reflection of what you believe. You have lived your life as the son of the King... and it has been an honor to sit front row and watch.
Gary, I have lots of memories of following you taller older cousins around. I'm sure it wasn't that much fun for you, but I thank you for always being encouraging and someone to look up to....not just literally, (pun intended). I have admired your courage and faith. Thanks for letting me tag along and listening to my stories. Know you are loved from your little cousin Jodi. When I see you in heaven, I'm pretty sure I'll be looking up to you as we sing praises to our Lord together. I look forward to it. With a big hug, Love Jodi
Gary, We have been so lucky to have you as part of our family for more than 30 years. I will always cherish the memories of times spent together with our families on holidays and trips to Idyllwild. Thank you for being such an awesome role model to my children.You are such a wonderful example of a Godly husband and father. I also want you to know that I love Dawn like a sister and will always be there for her. I know this will be the most difficult thing she will ever have to go though. She will always have my love and support. Good-bye Gary, you will be missed more than you can imagine.
Gary, we love you so much, and are so proud of you. We echo every good thing that has been said about you! We look forward to being together in heaven - hopefully in the same neighborhood. Much love - Mom and Dad
Dear Gary, It has been a long time since we've had any contact but I feel close to you because I love your family so much. You are part of my cherished childhood memories. I'm sad that we won' have the chance to get to know each other as adults. But we have heaven to look forward to so I'll look you up when I get there. :) What a day of rejoicing that will be, when we all see Jesus!! For now I"ll say goodbye, but not forever. One day we will all be together again and all our sorrows will be behind us. I know this is heartbreaking for Dawn and your whole family. They will be well-loved in your absence. We will all make sure Dawn has what she needs. You will soon be hearing what we are all looking forward to hearing..."Well done good and faithful servant. Enter into the joy of My Kingdom!" With fond affection, Carol (Jordahl) Pelton
Dawn and Gary, Though we only met a few months ago you've both been in our hearts from day one. It's been a privilege to know you and pray for you. We've rejoiced when you've rejoiced and our hearts broke when you were hurting. We continue to hold you both before The Lord during this transition because we know The Lord is still moving and working in your lives. We love you both and know you are in His hands. Love, Doug & Laurie Barker John 14:27 (NASB) Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.
HI Gary, I have always had so much respect for you, more respect than I have for most people. You are a man who just illuminates God's love in all things you do. Not only were you a remarkable volleyball coach to me, you are an amazing mentor. I am in awe of you. While I am so sad to say goodbye to such an amazing person, I know that your legacy will continue on here on earth. You have a heart gold. I consider myself blessed to know you. You have my utmost respect. We love you Gary. Thank you for caring and loving us. You'll live in our hearts forever. Thank you for all that you do.
I know it has been many years since we saw you. But the memories of our boys running abound the church TLC like they owned the place bring back such memories. You are such an amazing man of God. We thank the Lord for the memories we have and will continue to keep Dawn and your kids in our prayers. Our prayers will continue to be with all of you. My heart goes out to all of you. Know that you are deeply loved and we will see you soon. Love in Him Mark and Trish Schwenne
Coach Gary, We love you and admire you deeply. You have been a pillar of strength and encouragement for our family. We will be eternally grateful for the inspiration you bestowed on Miranda and patience and kindness you modeled every day, every practice and every tournament at DSVC and Xavier HS. You are a Prince among men and we pray you can rest peacefully without pain knowing how many lives you have touched. Thank you and God bless you and the amazing family you have. Blessings, Pattie, Rob and Miranda Dickinson
Gary, sheesh dude! This is not fun! This morning I text Chris, as we chatted a bit I told her I felt God telling me, "I've got this". So all I can do is rest and know he is God...and this is your time. Lots of memories of childhood I think there is a picture somewhere of you and a couple other guys at my birthday party when we were about 5-6 years. love you buddy and give my daddy a hug when you see him. Eileen
Hey coach its Katelyn Thiem from volley ball!:) i just want to say that when you were our coach we always had the best times. You made the sport worthwhile and I thank you. You were an amazing coach and i hope you know even though your gone we will never forget you. You will always be in our hearts to the end. I wish the team could have had more time to get to know you but your a great person, and i hope you find peace and happiness where your going. we will all love and miss you and thank you for everything you have done for us. Katelyn Thiem
Gary, We miss you! We pray and talk about you daily. Our hearts are sad because we miss that Hello and smile from Gary. The last 9 years have been such great times serving with you. The drive and passion you have is so great. You have been such a great Man of God. Most people don't know all the behind the scenes things you do. Like paying for Girls to play that are not even on your Team and the endless work of installing and repairing so much at DSC and never wanting a Penny to do the work. Your Passion has overflowed here and you have helped so many. Your Gifts keep giving even today. I am asking daily for healing and peace from God. You are loved by everyone. You are Truly a Man of God. May you and your Family have Peace. With Great Love, Jerry, Gloria, Melissa and Ashley
Gary, Thanks for making my friend Dawn so happy all these years! She once told me she didn't think she would ever be able to go on without you if something happened. We never thought it would. I have always envied the love you two have for one another. It was a God thing!! I think of you every day because I live in a house you built! I'm sure Paul's Dad will be looking over your shoulder as usual!! Love and Hugs, Linda
Hey Gary it's Hannah, you're in my prayers and on my mind constantly and I want you to know how amazing of a man and coach you are. You've given me strength many times to stay strong and push through. You're truly an inspiration and you'll always be in my heart, coach. Its a true blessing to have met someone like you. Thank you for everything you've done for me. It will never go un-noticed. Much love for you. Team Barton.
The Menne family have been praying right along side your family. God's Will is coming to a revelation for you, the Barton family. As we know as believers of truth, this is definitely not goodbye, but see you again soon". We pray for a peaceful transition as you close your eyes for the last time and instantly come before Jesus, King and Savior and Lord and Gary, you will hear those beautiful words "you have done well, my good and faithful servant." You have a faith that goes beyond words. You have been an inspiration to many young people and to many parents as well. As Paul says in 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 "do not grieve as the rest who have no hope, for if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus.: Gary, as your son said...you are going to get rid of this disease ridden body and get the new one you are promised and all the other blessings God has promised. Now sleep our friend and brother in Christ, and we shall see you again. To the Barton family, your faith is famous through example of these posts, keep encouraging and exhorting people who do not know the love of Jesus. We love you and feel your pain, but there will be joy in the morning.
Gary, I feel like you have been called to go on a faraway mission trip and we will not see you for a long time, no internet or phone connection for us to say hello. We are excited for you. We will miss having you around to laugh with, to talk with, and to talk about the good ol’ days. So many good times at church events, choir tours, and hearing you sing and play guitar at the church. Oh, I will miss that! As I think about it….you are not going on a mission trip to tell others about the love of Jesus but you have been called to HQ for a bigger assignment, a bigger leadership role. It is always hard to say good bye to those we care about so much and who we have grown up with but I am excited for you. You have done well. Your faith is strong and soon you will receive your reward and you will sit at the feet of our dear Lord…our heavenly Father. You have always been a good friend and a great encouragement. Even in these last days of suffering your faith and love for our Lord is such and encouragement to me. You are loved and you will be missed.
Dear Gary, we are so honored to have journeyed with you during this time on earth. We are so thankful to call you our "brother" in Christ. Your gentle, quiet spirit, has been such an encouragement to us. Jerry and I both have fond memoires of serving with you in the music ministries and sound. Thank you for sharing your life with so many people and blessing all you've come in contact with. Your strong faith in our Lord will continue to live on through the legacy of your children and prayerfully your grandchildren and beyond. We will definietly see you again, in the presence of our Savior, Jesus.
Dear Coach Gary: You will forever be Myka's FIRST volleyball coach. The one who really helped her love the game (she is playing for her Middle School here in Carlsbad (we moved) and for SoCal Club Volleyball too). She misses your calm yet firm coaching style which as we all know comes from the Lord. I can't lie, I cried just now hearing that this is goodbye to you because I feel so badly for your family to lose such a treasure. The hope we have in the Lord is the only thing we can lean on. So I will continue to pray for you and the family in these cherished last days. You are going to have no more pain, no more tears, no more crying and be at the Savior's feet. How beautiful. Love Always, Megan and Aaron Gutridge
Gary, it's been along time since I have seen you but I have great memories we shared: Twin Lakes, Carols in the Round, your guitar playing and great voice, bringing Rock and praise to our Lord together - cutting edge at the time and look at the Praise and Worship today and you were instrumental in ushering it in. Then there was Haiti and the Praise Singers, the wonderful experiences of giving of ourselves to those beautiful people of God. We so gained more then ever could have imagined. You have carried the legacy passed to you from your father on to your children. Your testamony of Faith lived out is so evident in your children's writings as they have kept us up to date with your journey. You can rest assured that God will carry on your legacy in them as you pass that torch. You have fought the good fight and you win the prize. We will be close behind you and look forward to being all together painless and fully present together and with our wonderful Savior who leads the way for us. MAy your days be full of love, family and song. And may Christ gently lift you Home. See you in a wink of an eye for if there is no time perhaps we are already there. Love you Gary and Dawn ! PS Dawn thank you too for sharing you heart, your love and your pain. God wastes nothing and your families openness and vulnerability will touch lives long past today. Love you Jan York
Hi Gary: I am thinking of you and lifting you up to our Father of mercies. I pray for God’s peace and strength for you. You are an awesome person and always touch my life. I remember how you would play bass on my songs. You’d always make them sound so much better with your cool bass licks! I still have a recording of when we sang my version I wrote of The Lord’s Prayer at Our Savior’s. I think we make God smile on that one….singing his prayer that way. Love you, brother, and miss you. ~Carla Paul
Gary, we have known you as the most kind and gentle man that God call to minister to young people not only through your passion of music but also through your love to surf. We will always be grateful for the influence you had in our son's life, Brandon. Brandon has been through such rough addiction with drugs, but The Barton Family always kept him close in prayer and for that we are grateful and thankful that you loved him as much as we do. You will blessed to know he is doing amazing and working in his recovery and giving back to a community that is in need of knowing God and how God has helped him in his recovery. The Baird Family loves you and thanks you for your service to God you have shared with so many young lives and as you meet with our Lord he will say "Well done my child, you have fought a great fight", Our thoughts and prayer will continue on for you and the family. Love to you all, The Baird Family
"I'll see you soon big brother. I love you" we're the last words I spoke to you before I left yesterday. I simply couldn't speak my heart to you...so very difficult...that I've always been so proud to have you as my big brother...how proud I've been of your gifts and talents and how you've shared them so generously with others...what a great example you've been as a husband, a father, and spiritual leader...being older than Greg and I we kinda grew up separately but I will cherish the times we sang together as a family...when you taught me to waterski up at Whiskytown and you let me use your Maharaja ski...that made me feel so special...the time we went to see Billy Graham at Candlestick Park and we got separated from the family leaving and you took my hand...I have never forgotten how that made me feel...and not long ago, I was so proud to watch you take my son surfing in Santa Cruz...he loved it...I loved how you loved all my kids and grandkids...and a biggie...thank you for moving your family to Palm Springs to build our school. Don and I are forever grateful, Gar. I had ALWAYS wanted you to build me a house and, well, I practically live there so that counts! However, when The Lord builds my house in heaven, I'd love your special touch. 😊 I could go on and on my sweet brother...this is just so hard...😢...I don't want it to end...just know that I love you big brother and I'll see you soon. ❤️ Hugs from your littlest sister, Sher
Thank you, Caleb, for your informative post. My heart goes out to you and your mom and dad and family. I know this is not your "plan A." Gary, I never had the pleasure of knowing you in the flesh, but have come to know you through the posts of your exploits going to the Philippines to find and rescue your son, then the posts of your journey of suffering. It breaks my heart to see you all go through this. On the other hand, I KNOW that God is faithful to His word that the suffering in this life doesn't begin to compare to His glory that will be revealed in us, and that all things work together for good to them that love the Lord and are called according to His purposes. I believe that the "working together for good" part doesn't have a graveside statute of limitations. :) The crown of life will go with you - a treasure for you to lay at Jesus' feet as an act of worship. :) I wish I could see the two of you when you meet Him face to face. :) It's going to be good. :) Go in peace. Go with God. Save us a place. :) Maybe I'll get to meet you there before too awfully long. :) Love and blessings to all of you. -- Linda Seroy
Thank you for shedding light on the path as Merrill and I prepare to start this journey ourselves. Merrill won't have the bowel blockages, as God was gracious and surgery was successful in removing all cancer from the inside of the colon, so he'll be more comfortable, but the prognosis according to man is bleak, and all we can do is go forward with treatment and trust God to work it out according to His will.
Tears are filling my eyes and my heart Gary. You have fought a great fight! An example of a selfless heart of love for your Lord and your family! I will never forget you as a little guy I was privileged to babysit! Life was never dull. Trying to decide how to deal with a little boy who climbed the partition between bedrooms or ??? You have grown into a wonderful man of God and a great example to so many. Your family has been an incredible part of my life, one I will never forget or cease to Praise God for. Your love of God, family, friends and music has put a lot of joy into my life and given me fulfillment. "God be with you 'til we meet again!" Thank you for your testimony. Dawn thank you for sharing your heart and encouraging words in spite of the heartache you are experiencing.
Gary, I've been reading all the posts to you with many tears but also praising God for the man that you are and the example you leave for others to follow. As you and Dawn have sacrificed and poured out your lives to bless others I pray that now the Blessings if God will pour out on you, Dawn and your family, pressed down and running over. I want to thank you and Dawn again for blessing our family so much when you drove your Mom and Dad to our parents Memorial Service in Arizonia. IThere would have been a big void without Uncle Paul to lead the service and all of your presence. We are all so grateful for that. As I watch the beauty of the the sunrise I am in awe of the Constancy and Faithrulness of our loving heavenly Father. He knew you, loved you, planned for you before you were thought of, and now awaits your homecoming. When my grandson died, drowned, the words to this song were so comforting, "Heveans so close it;'s like stepping into water, one minute your hear on the earth, the next with the Father." I pray for an easy transition into Glory and God's Comfort, Peace and Provision pourd out on Dawn and your family.
Thank you, Gary, for your wonderful, generous life. These many testimonies from your friends and family give witness to God's faithfulness to you and your love and kindness shown to all of us. You so generously jumped at the chance to rescue me a couple of years ago when I was over my head in our home remodel here in Irvine. I could see that was only the tip of the iceberg, a small sign of the generous life you were living. I loved catching up with you and hearing what God was doing in your life and your family's life. And seeing you generously using your skills, talents, and boundless energy in creative ways to show God's love to others. I was and am challenged and encouraged by your example, brother. I have been told by my mother that our two mothers were pregnant with us at the same time back in 1954 in Santa Cruz and Twin Lakes Baptist Church, and that when they found out that each intended to name their babies "Gary", they decided it was okay to have two Garys in the same church. Gary. it has been a privilege to share that name with you. We'll see you in the Lord's presence. Blessings.
Good morning Gary. I am so proud to have met you Gary and that God gave me the opportunity to work with you. Thank you for been such a great friend. I learned a lot from you Gary. you helped me a lot God Bless you always and your family. We continue to pray for you and your family.
Gary, although I have not met your family personally, I met your incredible family years ago on-line when a prayer request went out from my motorcycle group, Victory Riders a chapter of CMA in Riverside tp pray for Caleb after his accident. It has been amazing to watch Calebs journey and growth in his love of the Lord and I attribute that to you and his mom. God had awesome plans for this young man and you should be so proud. I have had the pleasure of speaking to Dawn a few time and e-mails back and forth. She is an amazIng woman of faith and I have the utmost respect for your families loving sacrificial service unto the Lord. I have seen your life story unravel before my eyes, with all the praise from people who know you and love you. Praying for comfort and praise for a job well done with your family.
Dear Gary, I many memories flooding back over the years that I have known you. You were about 4 years old when I started taking care of you when you were living on 9th Avenue. You, even as a little boy, had such a sweet and loving spirit. I have seen you grow into such a wonderful Godly man, allowing God to use you in many ways. I have enjoyed seeing your family grow up along side mine. Have been praying for you constantly as you have made this journey. It is hard to understand what the Lord has in mind, but we are confident that he has great things to be accomplished even through this. I love you Gary and am so blessed to have you a Dawn in my life. You have touched so many lives in so many ways and will continue to even as you continue to move on to heaven. Please tell my Mom hello for me when you see her. How wonderful to know that this is not the end but only the beginning and we will all be together again. Thanks for being an example to all of us who have known you. Love, Linda and Marvin Lawrence
Gary, I wanted to take this moment to thank you for all the time and friendship you have shared with my family, especially my parents. When they moved to Palm Springs permanently that was the first time in many years that I didn't live with them or close by them. Not only did I miss them but, being perhaps an over protective daughter I was concerned about them going somewhere new and reinventing their lives. Once I meet you I didn't worry anymore. Your love of the Lord is evident in all that you do and your servants heart has been a true blessing to me and my family. I can't say this enough, Thank you Gary!!! We will miss you so very much but, I know that one day soon and very soon we will see you again in Heaven. Gary and Dawn we love you, My prayers for you both will continue. Lisa
There is so much I'd like to say but, most important I want you to know how grateful I feel for being blessed into your family. You have been an amazing father in law to me and an exceptional Grandpa to Spencer. I promise you dad that Spencer will ALWAYS know and remember you. She watches the videos with you in it and she whispers"Grandpa" . She loves you so very much. You have such kind heart....the way you were always so patient and loving to Willy and Lana always made me smile. And Thank you for raising such an incredible son Paul. I see your faith and love and commitment to his family that you have instilled in him. You leave us with so many wonderful blessings. Thank you for the fun camping trips, and Disneyland days. We had so much fun but my favorite part is that we do it together as a family. I wish there was so much more time together but I will cherish the memories we have forever. I love you dad to the moon.
To Gary and family. It is so hard to write when you can't see the key board because of the tears. This day will come for all of us and I ask only that God will grant me half the strength He has granted you to fight so courageously and to maintain your faith through it all. This earthly body gets weak and worn out, but your Heavenly body will be perfect and everlasting, and you "will dwell in the house of the Lord forever". I'm sure the Heavenly choir needs a great base player, and I look forward to singing praise to God together when meet on that beautiful shore. Thanks be to God for all He has done and provided for you. All my love to you and you family. Stan Gile. SWCC
Gary, Can't thank you enough for all you have done for Ali. I know my girl can be stubborn, but she did enjoy having you as a coach. She misses seeing you. Thank you!
Gary: As the only "Uncle Barton" you have , per my knowledge, be assured that Aunt Shirley and I are praying for you, Dawn and all our family over and over both day and night, We love you all. Uncle Harry.
Dearest Gary, Even though we have lost contact over the years you and your family have never been far from our hearts. I'm awestruck in your strength and unwavering faith in everything you do especially while battling this dreaded disease. You and Dawn have raised your beautiful kids into wonderful, caring and selfless adults. I know you'll be proudly looking down while they carry on your legacy...Gary, I know we will meet again one day and Dawn know that I love you dearly. Always, Alex, Mel and family
There are few people God brings into your life for such a short time yet they have an impact for a lifetime. YOU ARE A COACH LIKE NO OTHER. Through volleyball you've lifted and blessed our daughter, Teti with confidence and so much more. Whenever you had called her for a routine or an out of the ordinary assignment, she was built up. She stood a little taller, her eyes were lifted and she got a boost of courage. She continues to feed off of you with that simply wise but true advice, "BE YOURSELF". You truly make her feel special. We often wondered how a coach can touch not only the player but also their family. The answer is easy with you, your faith in Jesus Christ. Well done coach! Well done! I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge, even as the testimony about Christ was confirmed among you. So that you are not lacking in any gift, as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. 1Cor.1: 4-9 ~Yemi and Yeti
Team Barton: I don't know any of you personally except Paul and Nelda through my parents, Jim and Janice Stevens. Gary, many, many years ago you bought sailboarding equipment from my then-husband, Mark Welty. I have to tell you that as I have followed your journey I am most impressed by the show of faith, dedication to God's will and deep well of peace that the entire family has demonstrated. You are an inspiration to those that know Christ, and an example to those who don't. You will, no doubt in my mind, be amazed at the lives you touched in a moment and those you touched daily. May God continue to bless you and the family as you continue on your journey for finish the race. You are prayed for continually....Thank you for being an instrument used by our Heavenly Father to demonstrate His great love for us.
Gary , my dear friend , you have carried yourself like the warrior who took on the battle and fought the only way you knew how , with full conviction and hope of victory ! We'll Gary , you win either way ! You will have the ultimate victory , and , you will have your perfect body. It has been hard for you , we'll I know , we are so proud of you , I have never seen more determination in any one in my lifetime . We will have to delay our pizza party for a little while , but time will not be a problem, right ? We love you, Gerry & Mardell
There are some who play the game and some who knock it out of the park...Gary...you are one who has knocked it out of the park. A handful of beautiful, intelligent, respectful, hard-working children, an incredible partner in life, and the respect and admiration of everyone you touched. I'm not sure there is anything more you could have wished for...except more time. Oddly enough, you will have that because each of us, who have benefited from having you in our lives, will carry a piece of you forward. That is the incredible legacy you have created. Be well on your journey and know that the world is a better place because you walked here. Thanks to you, we are on our way to building some houses -- you are here with us in our hearts.
Gary....Darrell and I will always cherish the time we spent together during our early years with JC Salt Co. and the many times we got together with the kids. You have been a great example of a Spirit lead life and we will miss you until we all get to rejoice again together. Hoping JC Salt Co or another great heaven band will arise in the near future. I've always wondered if you great musicians will get to play with King David on his harp someday...something to look forward to :-). Our hearts ache at having to say goodbye but know we are lifting up your precious family in prayer! Love, Darrell and Christine Daniele
love you gary. i want to be like you when I grow up. Strong in the faith no matter what the outlook. amazing musician. good father. and good looking too! you're a gift to this world my friend. Can't wait to see you again :)
Lisa Schultz's post reminded me: Just as the apostle Paul and others continue to bear fruit and reap reward through each of us whose lives have been touched and changed because of what he/they wrote, so you will continue to bear fruit and reap reward through all these lives you have touched. It's looking 100-fold to me, but, of course, I'm not the judge. :)
Dear dear Gary, what a testimony you are to all of us. I have always admired you and your family. Larry and I want to say we love you with our God's great love and will be praying for you and your family in these last days you have with them on this earth. You have been such a strong warrior and at the same time honored Gods great love in the plan he has for your life. Your children claim that through your example. I've learned so much through the loss of my dear Daddy and even though the pain is so deep I trust God's plan is best. You will reach the finish line before us and enter into another demention of our heavenly fathers love! Would you please give my Daddy a hug for me!? We will see you again!
My Memories of time spent with you Gary was when i called you to help me with the signage on the church at Northgate. I remember you had no pause or doubt when i had asked you for help. That day you made an impression on me that I will never forget and that I strive to be like. You showed me how to put others first. Thank you for your friendship and thank you for the few projects we were able to work on together. My love to your family and may God bless your journey to the eternal. I will see you in Heaven my brother.
"Well done my good and faithful servant" So soon it seems you'll be hearing those words from the Lord himself, What my Mom said is so true, you and your family were always an inspiration to us. It's also true what many others have said how you inspired others, I always looked up to you as a kid, and later as a young adult I learned a lot about construction working for you, when work was slow, you even found me another job with a different contractor. I always admired what I think was a quiet and humble strength that you seemed to exhibit, character traits that no doubt came from your relationship with Jesus. Praying for you and your family at this time, We shall meet again - I am absolutely certain,
Psalm 73;24, Glory is the reward for a life well lived. Not sinless, but rather a race endured. I believe your dad will indeed see that glory. Praying for you and your family. A Christian will depart from his earthly family, but our hope is in the fact that we will one day be reunited.
Blessings, good man (and for the good Dawn). I have always admired you, albeit from somewhat of a distance. Ultimately, we are one great family, with our abiding hope and prayer to rejoin and rejoice in God's grace and love, which already shows in your path, as the several genuinely warm messages above attest. Thank you for the many kindnesses we know you have extended and for yet others we can only surmise, all of which continue to deliver quiet but steady encouragement. Until then . . .