Hi, David and Margaret. Here's a blast from the distant past. With great sorrow I read about the passing of Helen and wondered if there were any way I could send you a note of condolence. Google turned up this site and I see you're on a difficult enough journey of your own, though facing it with intelligence and heart, as I'd expect. But added to your stress is the pain of losing Helen. I am so sorry!
Seattle Cancer Care Alliance is the place to be. You know they'll help you through this. And clearly you have a huge supportive group sending love your way. Please count me as a member.