I can't imagine your pain, I have never met you and I only knew Perry in the halls of my high school, but those halls live—as so many of us walk them today to embrace and encourage Perry. What a wonderfully brave human being you recognized, fell in love with and married, what a strong, strong man chose a strong, strong woman for a perfect union that brought an imperfect life with all the trimmings.
We pray for you and stand beside you as you open the window and wish him through it to heaven. He will be embraced and he will wait to embrace you one day, but he will no longer be in pain. The needles, the saws, the pain and partial recoveries are over. He is safe in the hands of God and he will be watching.
I don't know you, but I wish you peace and the knowledge that his memory will live and love for a long, long time.
I send you embraces and love and all the things God provides in the sad things that happen down here. I do believe that somewhere above the clouds there are many smiles to greet Perry - and he will be free.
Wishing you love and peace,