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Posted 2021-03-10T11:46:49Z

Prepare for the Unexpected

We want to give everyone an update that Ellie has been admitted to ICU as of yesterday at 4 PM.  Her oxygenation started deteriorating and breathing had been laboured starting around 2 pm yesterday and her diastolic (bottom) blood pressure had been dropping, lowest down to 20 mmHg.  They called a MET call (like a code blue) on the ward when this happened. I was with Ellie at the time. Eerily, she appeared fine during it all, and I quietly stepped back, calm and collected while about 15 people flew into the room, threw the curtains back, flipped on all the lights and descended upon her. She is the epitome of strength and bravery. Stoic and strong willed, and this was yet another testament of just how much her body is being tested yet she rarely, if ever, tells us is she is in pain or if something wrong. I have since collapsed in a little heap in the hours since. Holding it in when it counts, and letting it out when no one is looking. Thank God for Paul who is always my rock to lean on. 

The past 24 hours Ellie has been in ICU and does remain stable. The doctors still do not know why, but are suspecting a possible inflammatory reaction/response to an infection. The ICU consultant threw out the possibility of a pulmonary embolism, but right now they are putting a bandaid on the problem, so to speak, until they can figure it out. The bandaid is norepinephrine for her BP, steroids just to see if they help, positive pressure oxygen which is humidified warm oxygen blowing into her nose (which then inflates the lungs like a balloon, as the base of her lungs are partially collapsed and or filled with fluid) and a continuous IV infusion of a sedative to help see her through all of the things coming at her. They have also placed an arterial line which measures her BP directly via an artery in her wrist. Lastly, Ellie now has a nasogastric tube which will remain throughout her treatment. Her TPN (IV steak and potatoes in a bag, as the nurses call it) will stop and she will get fed directly into her stomach now. 

Being admitted to ICU is a point that we never thought we would encounter and the last 24 hours have been extremely mentally exhausting. But, with that being said, all of Ellie’s vital signs/observations look very good at the moment with the “band aids” they have given her. We just need to understand what is making this happen (infection or inflammatory response) to better understand the treatment approach. We’re are praying she will get out of here in a few days, but as the team says, it’s all about how Ellie responds: she dictates when she gets out of here. Please keep those prayers coming. Love you all xx

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Comments (23)

  • Kelly OBrien
    Kelly OBrien

    Hang in there. One day at a time. I love you. I wish I was there.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Steven Gavshon
    Steven Gavshon

    My heart goes out to you all. Hang in there and keep fighting Ellie. Stay strong Paul and Kara. Much love from abroad.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Elizabeth Gallagher
    Elizabeth Gallagher

    Thinking of you all. Hugs from afar. Ellie you are a fighter! Stay strong sweet girl.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Christina Batcheller
    Christina Batcheller

    Prayer warriors remain on duty. Hugs to you, dear cousin.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Christine Jennings
    Christine Jennings

    Sending so many hugs and prayers ❤️ Ellie is strong and she will fight this. Stay strong mama, love you lots and always thinking of y’all.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Maureen Marsden
    Maureen Marsden

    If only tears could heal, I know Ellie would be well already. Keep fighting Carter family. We are all with you. Sending love and prayers.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Maria Navarro
    Maria Navarro

    Oh Kara I am so sorry you guys are going through this. How I wish I was there to hug you all, we continue praying here every day and every time she comes to mind. It is a day at a time, but sometimes is just a moment at a time, but every moment is a moment of her fighting this thing. We love you all ❤️

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Robert McWilliams
    Robert McWilliams

    Praise be to God for He will carry Ellie and you through this most trying time of your lives. God Bless you all.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Mary Jo Domen
    Mary Jo Domen

    I know you are strong for Ellie and yes, there will be times you collapse. She is a very strong young lady. We are keeping everyone in prayers. May God hold all of you in the Palm of His hand and may He guide the doctors and nurses to heal Ellie and calm the storm surrounding you. I wish I had adequate words ...

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Tara Smith
    Tara Smith

    So many prayers for you all! Life is hard and challenging sometimes. Why do bad things happen to good people has always been one of life’s mysteries. Have faith that there will be brighter days ahead.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Emma Williams
    Emma Williams

    We are here for you, if there is anything you need let us know. We can drop everything and be there in a few hours. Love Em and Ben xx

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Dawn Bridgeman
    Dawn Bridgeman

    Keep fighting Ellie and stay strong Kara, Paul and families. Sending positive vibes and lots of hugs and love to you all.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Fiona sandell
    Fiona sandell

    My heart is going out to you all at this difficult time stay strong little Ellie win the good fight your a strong little one and will get through this. Thinking of you all Kara , Paul and Annabel praying for you all

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Dave Kehlet
    Dave Kehlet

    ❤️❤️❤️

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Sally-Ann Carter
    Sally-Ann Carter

    We know where she gets those strength and bravery traits from! Keep fighting Ellie, we are all so proud of you and will send all the positive healing vibes to you every second of every day. Thank you Kara for informing and explaining everything to us all at such an emotional and difficult time. Sending love and strength to you all xx

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Meg Haynes
    Meg Haynes

    Dear Kara, you, Ellie, Paul and Annabelle are all in our thoughts. If there is anything that we can do for any of you please let us know.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Jocelyn Cumming
    Jocelyn Cumming

    You are all in our prayers all our love Joce and Brian 💖

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Lisa Samuel
    Lisa Samuel

    Sending you a huge hug. Well done for holding it together that takes a lot of strength. Positive thoughts and prayers for your beautiful baby girl. x

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Merrillyn Hill
    Merrillyn Hill

    Praying 🙏 for all of you!

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Sonia redfield
    Sonia redfield

    Sending your whole family healing strength and ❤️ love.

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Maria Navarro
    Maria Navarro

    Thinking of you all, sending prayers of healing for Ellie. ❤️

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Sue Read
    Sue Read

    Thinking of you all. Happy Birthday to Annabelle for Monday and I hope you all get to enjoy her party today xxxx. Sending lots of love and positive vibes 💕

    5 years ago · Reply
  • Fernando Navarro Sr
    Fernando Navarro Sr

    Kara, My prayers continue daily for Ellie’s strength & recovery, multiple times during the day. ♥️ An lot of strength to all in the Foxhole. ♥️❤️

    5 years ago · Reply