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Posted 2017-11-30T04:59:00Z

recovery time

On Monday evening, when I walked into the recovery room, Erik opened his eyes, looked at me, and said, "Emily, you'll never believe the dream I had! We bought a farmhouse in Vermont, and ran it as a B&B..."

(If you don’t know why that’s so funny, see: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OwYw2i2icNg and https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Newhart#.22The_Last_Newhart.22 )

Since then, life has been a steady parade of various tubes, monitors, nurses taking vital signs every 4 hours, and that sort of thing. I meant to post before now, but time has slipped away, and there hasn’t exactly been any “news” to report. Erik has been healing nicely, and his numbers on all the things there are numbers on seem to please the medical staff. Most of yesterday, he was having some bad pain in his shoulder, which they determined was due to his chest drain, but that was much better by this afternoon, which was a relief. He's not allowed to eat or drink anything, even sips of water, until his stomach has healed up enough--hopefully Friday--which is rough. He's "eating" with his J-tube, and hydrating with an IV, and can use a wet swab to keep his mouth happy as long as he doesn't swallow any of the water.

They want him to be up and moving as much as he can, which has translated to a couple of walks around the area of the hospital his room is in yesterday, increasing to 4 walks today--each walk is about the distance of a short city block or so.

The nurses here at Dartmouth-Hitchcock have been absolutely phenomenal--competent and kind, truly listening to what one has to say, and never giving us the sense that there’s somewhere else they need to be, though Erik is obviously not their only patient.

Cameron and my dad drove down from Cabot for a visit yesterday evening, which was really nice. We had some dinner from the hospital cafeteria (quite decent food at very low cost), and Cameron joined in on the evening walk. Cameron and my mom are going to visit tomorrow evening, and a couple of other friends earlier in the day.  

Overall, Erik's in pretty good spirits, though awfully tired most of the time, and yearning to eat and drink again. We anticipate the tube count going down by at least one tomorrow, which will definitely feel like he's getting back to normal!

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Comments (9)

  • barbara grandberg
    barbara grandberg

    thanks for the update :] so good to hear that erik is doing well :} i'll keep those healthy/healing thoughts coming and gentle [[[[hugs]]]] to you and erik :)

    8 years ago · Reply
  • jessica Offir
    jessica Offir

    It is already Thursday - Friday will be here before you know it!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Barbara Halada
    Barbara Halada

    So glad to hear that Erik's 'recovery' period has begun! It's a hard road, but I hope it will be a short one. You and your family are in our thoughts. Stay strong.

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Maggie Grantgra
    Maggie Grantgra

    These are the “complaints” we love to hear - the normal fussing of a beloved friend who’s healing! You’re on the best path through those woods, and headed out of them! Yippee!!!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Elizabeth Eakin
    Elizabeth Eakin

    This is where no "news" is good news indeed--this is the wrong time for excitement. Slow and steady! Look how far you have come! I hope the rest of the path is not too onerous. Sending love and warm healing thoughts for a successful (and soon) "no-leaks test".

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Kara Pekar
    Kara Pekar

    I'm glad to hear Erik is healing and doing well, though I'm sorry he's having so much pain. He hasn't lost his sense of humor, though! May recovery continue to be steady and strong.

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Sally Denmead
    Sally Denmead

    Just what I was hoping to hear! May every day bring more strength and less discomfort. Hang in there, you will (both) soon be home. P.S. It may amuse you both to know that for the foreseeable future, I am styled as the Baroness Caroline von Krackenfeldt. (Ach, dis crack-jaw lankvich!)

    8 years ago · Reply
    • Karen Mueller-Harder
      Karen Mueller-Harder

      That's great! Did I hear that your Grand Duke dates are late February, so we might actually get to see it? (Erik's first road trip after the surgery, no doubt!)

      8 years ago · Reply
  • Erik Mueller-Harder
    Erik Mueller-Harder

    This post is now visible on my own blog at https://erikmh.org/post/2017/recovery-time/

    2 years ago · Reply