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Posted 2018-09-01T01:50:56Z

8/31/18

Transfer, transfer, transfer. That's what much of the work I'm doing has lead up to: the ability to safely move myself from my bed to my wheelchair, from my wheelchair to a couch/chair/sofa and back, onto and back from the toilet seat, into and out of a car, etc. I've finally gotten down the mechanics of the transfer, but there are still a few more moving parts, as it were, such as positioning the feet properly so the feet/ankles don't get twisted, or making sure one's junk is kept out of harm's way, but it is coming together, finally, after weeks of baby steps. I had another motor strength assessment today, and have gained some function in several upper body muscles, but there are others that need beefing up, and so I'm getting targeted exercises in the gym from my exercise physiologist, who know just how to hone in on my weaknesses (in a good way). Hard to believe, but they say I'll be ready to graduate from the inpatient unit to outpatient rehab in just two weeks. It seems like there are still so many things I have to master before then, but I'm taking their word for it. Following 3-4 weeks of 8 hour days of OT and PT we will  then be heading back to Virginia, hopefully in time to catch some of the fall colors.

I continue to marvel at the dedication of the staff with whom we deal 24/7. Without fail, they remain encouraging, friendly, and genuinely concerned about how we, the inmates, are doing,. Changing sheets in the middle of the night, fetching fresh ice water, delivering the abundance of cards and mail, bringing meals, cleaning the rooms, and dispensing our piles of pills are but a few of the seemingly infinite number of actions that go into the mix of providing superb care, and I will try to use what I've learned as a patient to make me more attuned to what it is that my patients need from me and my co-workers. I've always believed that health care providers need to be on "the other side of the exam table" from time to time in order to be reminded of what it feels like, and, although I wouldn't have chosen this particular experience to re-teach me this lesson (I would've been more than happy to settle for a sprained ankle or a case of severe hemorrhoids), I'm not going to let it go to waste. 

A quick shout out to three med school friends, John Petersen, Yahno MInasi and Brian Wilder, who made the trek to Atlanta last Friday, and took me out for my first meal "off-campus", as well as Ed Ricardelli (another from the legendary class of '85) who flew himself to Atlanta this morning for a delightful two hour action-packed session of catching up as only Ed could provide. Our son, Alex, arrived this evening, and Jordan will arrive in the morning to help celebrate my birthday. How lucky am I? 

Thanks again to everyone who has left posts, and/or sent cards, juju, karma, care packages, CDs and love.You'll never know how much it means to me. 

 

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Comments (20)

  • Jill Saylors
    Jill Saylors

    Thank you for another update. I have been wondering how you're doing. Your positive attitude is so inspiring. My prayers for you and your family continue. God bless.

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Janis Moyer
    Janis Moyer

    So glad you are doing well and getting stronger every day! Happy birthday!🎈🎁🎂🎉💚

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Ellen Swiss Rosi
    Ellen Swiss Rosi

    Yo Rob! Happy birthday and may this year be a year of mastering new skills and moving on to enjoying old pleasures and vices.. wine to be drunk, meals to be shared, patients to care for, family and friends to enjoy. Always thinking of you and yours. Xxoo

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Cheri Moran
    Cheri Moran

    Wow! So excited about your progress! We are looking forward to your return to Staunton! You both have numerous friends at the Bindery and we are excited about you and Nancy returning. Please let us know about rides, trips, outdoor adventures, bridge, etc that we can have you both join us!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • John Petersen
    John Petersen

    Rob, you forgot to mention how we all got in trouble getting you back after curfew.

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Julie Thurnau
    Julie Thurnau

    Yeah! I was just telling Robin tonite that I was nagging you for an update. Glad they are giving you a good workout. Hard to believe that through it all, you still have the capacity to take your experience as a patient in order to provide better care to others. You truely are exceptional! I hope you have a joyful birthday 🍻

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Laura Gonzalez
    Laura Gonzalez

    Rob, great to hear of your progress. You are sorely missed. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Laura Gonzalez

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Rita Lehman
    Rita Lehman

    So glad to hear of the progress and hard work you are doing both physically but also mentally to prepare to face the future. Keep it up!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Virginia Lloyd-Davies
    Virginia Lloyd-Davies

    Woot woot! Good to know you're doing so well! (and as you've no doubt found out, crying, despairing, and generally feeling pissed off is okay too. Those feelings are no reflection on your moral strength, just part and parcel of the journey.) Sending you much love.

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Robin Sanders
    Robin Sanders

    Happy Birthday Robert . And lots of warm wishes for your continued progress on the road to healing

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Laurel Weddle
    Laurel Weddle

    Happy birthday!! 🎈🎂🎁 Congratulations on your continued improvement ! Continued prayers for you and Nancy. Laurel Weddle

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Lynell Firebaugh
    Lynell Firebaugh

    Rob, a great progress report. My love to you and your family and a joyous birthday celebration. 🙂

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Tina Newell
    Tina Newell

    So glad to get an update. Such progress you have made, out and about on the town, moving on to outpatient in 2 weeks. I know what you mean about becoming the patient for a while. It is quite a reality check to see healthcare from the patient's side. Best of luck on your conditioning routine. Say hi to Nancy.

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Candy Krop
    Candy Krop

    It is wonderful to hear about all your progress. Your upbeat attitude continues to amaze!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Cristi Kyler
    Cristi Kyler

    🎉Happy Birthday and congratulations!!! 🎊

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Forrest young
    Forrest young

    Rob, I simply cannot imagine what you've gone through, and the deep well of strength from which you continually draw up buckets of focused energy. You're the real deal, an inspirational wizard... I just want to know when you plan to have your TED Talk about the book you're going to have to write chronicling this incredible journey?! Seriously though, I have been reading along with literally every update and comment here on PostHope since I found out what happened to you. I wish it had just been a sprained ankle. But, the way you have channeled this misadventure's latent potential into a positive picture for yourself, your family, and the way you interact with your future patients... It's just the best. Wish I could have driven down to visit and shared some music and art with you. But, it will have to wait until you all get back home to Staunton. By the way, I just saw the group shot of you, Nancy, Jordon, and Alex. I cannot believe how much Alex looks like you! Hugs to you all!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Michael Zuckerman
    Michael Zuckerman

    I am so delighted by your posts. Sounds like determination and great attitude are making for enormous progress. SO many people are pulling and praying for you! Hope you are surrounded by love on your birthday!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Jessie Washington
    Jessie Washington

    Happy Birthday Dr. Kyler! Love the family pic! Continued blessings!!!!

    8 years ago · Reply
  • Ginger Webb
    Ginger Webb

    Keeping you in our prayers. You are a true inspiration. Congratulations on your progress and Happy Belated Birthday. You need to write a book about your experiences as a doctor (of course changing the names of your patients and coworkers, to protect the guilty) and your present journey. I so enjoy your writing style, it would be a best seller. Best wishes to you and your family, Ginger & Steve Webb

    8 years ago · Reply
    • Forrest young
      Forrest young

      What a GREAT idea!!! I would definitely buy Rob's book, and be an avid promoter of it online and otherwise!!!

      8 years ago · Reply