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Posted 2015-04-15T17:39:38Z

traveling and shedding

The last couple days I've been feeling close to "normal." I was even able to swim in & coach the "fast" lane at Special Olympics last night! Overall the side effects of the second chemo treatment remained considerably more manageable than the first. I'm now gearing up for a weekend trip to the SF Bay Area for my twin niece & nephew's Bar & Bat Mitzvah! It's also my birthday on Sunday, and I'm looking forward to time with extended family, and also time with my close friend Anita, who will be accompanying me! (A note of surprised gratitude to Southwest Airlines, who made an exception to their "no transfers" policy when they heard my situation, and allowed me to apply credit from Don, Sam & Sarah's airline tickets to a ticket for Anita (with additional credit to spare!)

Despite all the preparation for and anticipation of my hair falling out (which has included online purchases of a number of scarves, hats, and turbans, as well as the fancy shave), the reality of it is still a bit disturbing. It started to fall out in earnest yesterday after my swim, and I feel like I'm shedding like a dog in springtime, and a very white scalp is starting to show through many parts of my head. 

Don and I have decided to try a somewhat more minimal approach to scheduling "sitters" for me for the next chemo round. We've scheduled a couple, but for the rest we'd like to try random visits. We encourage you to give us a call if you want to stop by for a visit. Times we anticipate we may be around and unscheduled are Thurs. 4/23 late afternoon & evening, Friday 4/24 morning or early pm, Saturday 4/25 afternoon & evening, Sunday 4/26 morning or evening. 

 

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Comments (6)

  • Deb Raupp
    Deb Raupp

    Your trip sounds wonderful and uplifting. I'd love to visit with you during your next chemo. Where will I meet you? I have flexibility Saturday afternoon and would love to join you. -Deb

    11 years ago · Reply
  • Betty Harris Custer
    Betty Harris Custer

    We're headed to SF tomorrow thru Monday too. The oldest grandboy about to hit the big six. Glad to hear you are getting that break. Wave if you are near the Presidio!

    11 years ago · Reply
  • Sue Clapp
    Sue Clapp

    It's understandable that the loss of your hair would be unsettling. You have my deepest empathy. Your gorgeous eyes and bright smile will shine through. Have a great time in SF, and a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY to YOU!

    11 years ago · Reply
  • Jacqueline Kaplan
    Jacqueline Kaplan

    Have a wonderful trip!

    11 years ago · Reply
  • Ross Ament
    Ross Ament

    Hi Becca: Happy Birthday, early! Keep your spirits up, you are navigating the waters of life very well. You are an inspiration to us all, especially when we have our own challenges! Ross Ament

    11 years ago · Reply
  • Roseanne Clark
    Roseanne Clark

    Hi Becca, I am just back from working down under in Australia and have deeply appreciated and am inspired by reading your beautiful reflections and your openness in sharing your journey with compassion and courage! I love the designs in your hair...creative, and moving gracefully like you! Speaking of moving...your swims and your traveling to San Francisco sound wonderful! When you return, I would love to come sit or walk, listen or talk, if it is ok with you! Sending much Metta, a smile and a hug! Roseanne

    11 years ago · Reply