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Posted 2017-12-12T15:42:00Z

Pre-Chemo Brain? Or Societal Resistance To Rational Arguments?

I saw a photo of a puppy. A very cute puppy. And I started imagining how therapeutic it would be to have a cold puppy nose nuzzling up to me when I’m home feeling crappy after chemo. So I went down the Pet-Finder rabbit hole. I had no idea there were so many litters of puppies available for rescue / adoption within a 25 mile radius of my home. 

I asked a very puppy-wise and skilled lawyer friend to talk me off the ledge. But I was oddly resistant to her sound and sane advice!  Then my pastor told me, “Janet, love is what keeps kids and puppies alive. It’s also how you often get one and it’s also not rational. 馃槈”. Pastor Kate, I think that’s called enabling!

Finally I recognized that I was under the pernicious influence of a culture in which wisdom is no longer revered. I have apparently learned, from our President’s example, how to ignore wise counsel!

I have broken the spell. Google did it. Shockingly, adopting a new puppy is not advisable when your immune system is weakened by chemo. Oh well, no puppy. 

 

HOW ABOUT A 2-YEAR OLD DOG?!?! 馃槈. (It doesn’t help that there is currently an influx of rescue dogs from the hurricane in Puerto Rico.)

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Comments (5)

  • Viana Vazquez
    Viana Vazquez

    Go for it!!!! But...Have you discussed this with Ernie?🤔

    8 years ago 路 Reply
    • Janet (Sarver) Lim
      Janet (Sarver) Lim

      Ernie would cut that poor puppy!!!

      8 years ago 路 Reply
  • Kenny Eicher
    Kenny Eicher

    FAKE NEWS! Haha... I would also advise against a puppy - but that has nothing to do with chemo... but from zero desire to house-train a dog.

    8 years ago 路 Reply
    • Janet (Sarver) Lim
      Janet (Sarver) Lim

      I have generally felt the same way! I don鈥檛 know what came over me. My dog-inexperienced husband doesn鈥檛 realize what puppy means and he thought we should get a puppy (when the time comes) just to maximize the time the boys have with their pet. He is so naive. If I do it, I will know how idiotic I鈥檓 being!

      8 years ago 路 Reply
  • Casie Jimenez-Moran
    Casie Jimenez-Moran

    LOL I would suggest you get a really cuddly stuffed animal! We got a puppy a year ago and it reminded of us of having a newborn in the house again! Sleep deprivation and lots of up and down! Counter argument A and the puppy are super close and sleep together. <3

    8 years ago 路 Reply