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Posted 2014-11-19T22:59:00Z

Mid November Updates - 7 Months

WOW.... the time seems to be flying by, as the seventh month mark of Jake’s motorcycle accident from the US Army has just passed us by. Reflecting back to 7 months ago of where this all started in in the El Paso, TX seems like an eternity ago. Jeff and I are so very grateful we have surpassed that agonizing time in our lives. GRATITUDE- is the word of the century for our family. We are forever grateful to all of our friends, family and online social communities that have been supporting us all this time. This gratitude connection- deeply rooted neuroscience research- is our family's intrinsic motivator to stay positive and motivated to impact Jake's healing journey. There is not a day that goes by that a friend, neighbor, colleague, family member or online Twitter/Facebook teacher friend that inquires about Jake, our family and how are WE doing. Many of you emphasize the importance that Jeff and I need to make time for ourselves, but it is extremely difficult when we are the sole and primary caregivers to Jacob. We are forever protecting, guarding and keeping our youngest safe as it is so hard to let our guard down by the past experience of the mistreatments, lies, and major disappoints of a few individuals that were suppose to be keeping our Jacob safe. Many entities fall into this “mistrust “ category now and it will take a very long time before Jeff and I can ever forgive these certain individuals. In time this feeling of resentment will pass towards these individuals, and eventually we will forgive them, but it will take many many years. Gratitude will get us through these postive and negative trying times.[...]