High Expectations

I gave my students a work period for their quarter project that's due next week, and although I assigned this project three weeks ago and had previously given a work day in class, I noticed a blank screen before one of my students on Friday. "Dude, what's the deal?" I asked this kid who I've noticed to be a hard worker despite his reputation for the reverse. He promised to work hard the rest of the period and over the weekend. "You'd better," I told him, "I'm expecting you to have one of the best projects." 

He's completely capable of it.

I told his dorm brother the next class period that I'd said I was expecting this first kid to have the best project. "You weren't serious, were you? You just said that to try to motivate him, right?" Well, yes, I was just trying to motivate him, but I'm disappointed that his peers and other teachers don't hold him to a higher standard. I'll reiterate, he's completely capable of achieving great things. He comprehends the material and has the ability to create a great demonstration of his understanding through the assigned parameters. The highlight of my day was an email from him this afternoon with the short message, "I just wanted to let you know I'm working on my project right now." (This is saying a lot because I woke up to 102 snarky text messages from Shannon sent as she watched She's the Man while I slept, so take that into consideration as I place this email as the highlight of my day.) 

This student is making an effort to rise above the low expectations placed on him so that he can redefine himself as a leader in the school. I refrained from sending a response that said I expected his project to be better than his snarky dorm brother because, honestly, I admire his humility and willingness to make this turn around rather than remain hardened and discouraged by a bad reputation. I want him to know I take him seriously as a learner, and I've already promised him pico de gallo next week.

Today as I rested in recovery from the other stresses of my week, I reflected on the low expectations placed on me. I want to achieve more physically, but I'm so easily excused when I can't walk. Granted, there are times when my disability is an actual limitation, but sometimes I resent the low expectations. I want to be like my student and graciously exceed the expectations my peers and observers place on me. At those times when I can do more, I want to push myself when the world would let me sit down and wheel along the easy route. It takes me a little longer - okay a lot longer - to get places when I walk, but there's a huge sense of accomplishment when I manage it well.

This week, I looped around the fire house with Cindy each day and saw huge jumps in my stability as I return to the pre-butt injury level. I still can't do everything, but I'm going to still over achieve based on the expectations, and I'm excited to grade this exegetical and hermeneutical analysis next week. Yes, I have limitations, but as I reflected with Anja on Friday, one of the best things about my ongoing German physiotherapy is the constant expectation of more. Margot and Anja think I can do better and want to help me achieve more. I want others to keep looking at my story and step in to encourage me to achieve more. By the grace of God, I'm not done in this healing process, and I don't want to be excused for what actually comes down to laziness. 

This isn't an excuse for you to chew me out if you see me using my wheelchair or mobility aids because they are still definitely necessary, but it is a request for your encouragement to keep moving forward.