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Posted 2017-02-23T17:03:44Z

How can one short trip around the sun can feel so long....

One year ago I got up early, and said goodbye to my sick wife and headed off to an early morning coffee meeting. It started like most other days, it didn't feel drastically different other than I had to get my meetings and work done prior to heading to the doctor with Shannon at 2:30pm. I met my client for coffee at Espresso Royal on Fairview and Randolph in St Paul, then I headed off to the office. Just 3 days earlier we had a 3 am trip to the ER where we received some conflicting diagnosis and not a lot of information other than "you should see a specialist". So I headed home a little early to help Shannon get ready for the appointment. I remember, she was so sick and weak that it took a lot of effort for her just to get dressed and down to the car. We then headed off to Health Partners specialty clinic in St Paul. At 2:30pm on February 23, 2016 we arrived at the doctor appointment that you never want to go to. I remember many of the details from the appointment but the one that stands out was meeting the doctor. The exact words that were exchanged escape me now but it was something to the effect of "Hello, my name is Dr _______, what I've found isn't good, bad luck."
And with that our lives changed.[...]