When Life Calls, You Answer
Hello,
Chad completed his second cycle of chemotherapy today and let me tell you, he has been nothing short of amazing! He has been through so much and he's done it all with a big smile and a hilarious trail of Chadisms. He has kept all of us strong and positive simply by being himself and that says so much about his energy. I am having trouble with finding the words to describe how in awe I am of him and his perspective of life so I won't linger here, just know, who he is as a person takes my breath away.
I mentioned a few days ago that one side of Chad's port was not able to be accessed. Today during the disconnect appointment it was decided to leave the port alone. I did a little research and we had a great talk with our nurse today and we are more than fine with the decision. Clogged or blocked ports are very common and not considered dangerous. Thankfully, Chad has a dual port and one side of the port was working just fine so he received his treatment without issue and that's what's most important. We realized that yes, they could have treated it today and got it clear but Chad has 10 days before he has to use it again and it could possibly block again and we wouldn't know it was blocked until he goes back for the next infusion. So, as I'm sure you guessed it just makes the most sense to leave it alone and if it needs treated at his next infusion it will be taken care of then.
Chad conquered new territory during this infusion and headed out socially while wearing his pump. It hasn't been a secret that Chad doesn't particularly enjoy the time that he is connected to the pump but I am thankful that he was willing to be open-minded about it. He enjoyed some time at The Memorial Tournament and he planned an impromptu dinner out with friends. I don't know what it's like for him but I do know that he seemed really happy out enjoying a great day and I hope that I can help him figure out more ways to make that a regular thing.
The CT scans are scheduled for Sunday afternoon. We are hoping, and wishing, and praying for positive results and we ask you all to join us in whatever form you send your love and juju into the universe and we thank you in advance. We did decide that we aren't going to wait around the house and worry while we wait for the results. We are going to go rest and recharge and laugh until it hurts. We head out first thing Monday morning and are looking forward to the break.
It's just going to be Chad & I this trip, Cami had other plans. We are heading out Monday morning to Ft. Myers and Sanibel Island for the week. We wanted to make our first trip during treatment easy and familiar and I think we've made a great plan. We look forward to spending time with great friends while we are there. While we were planning this trip I realized something very special about Chad that I had always known but hadn't really appreciated. Chad is wonderfully thoughtful about keeping up with where his friends relocate to and are traveling to and making sure that if we're ever near anyone that he knows he tries to get together with them. Always. He skips texting and actually calls most of the time, it's fantastic. I mention this because we have a great week ahead of us in part because Chad makes those calls. I hope that if you're ever on the fence you think of Chad and go for it. If you're out of town for an event and you know an old friend lives nearby-CALL! If you get a call from an old friend that happens to be in town and wants to meet up-GO!
We want to sincerely thank everyone that has helped to make this trip possible. We are so grateful.

Comments (8)
We love hearing of the great progress Chad is making & his positive attitude & humor is wonderful. Sending prayers for a positive outcome on Sunday & safe travels to one of the most beautiful places on earth. Also, happy that Chad got to enjoy some Memorial Tournament time! Thanks for keeping us informed! Love, Betsy & Doug
Beautifully said Aja! You and Chad are both amazing people and those of us blessed to call you friends are better for it! We will be praying SO SO hard these upcoming scans show good changes! Love you both much!!
Good people you deserve good outcomes..I am so happy that you guys are taking this serious situation so positively. BARRY Brons Buddy.
Chad and Aja- Love getting the updates! Love even more hearing the positivity written in your words, Aja, and the positivity in Chad :) Thinking of you always! So excited to hear you are getting to the beach next week!!!! Have the most amazing time (I know you will!) Love, Krista
So happy to hear that Chad is himself, maintaining his sense of humor, and, Thinking of others! The Memorial Tournament is an exciting game, especially with Tiger in the hopes for an 82 nd win! Stay strong Chad. We send you and Aja our love and support through your treatment. Yoiu are a strong guy. A hug to you,Aja, your mom and dad , and Holly and James. Keep up the good work!
It’s so great to hear of the progress Chad is making! Aja- Thank you for these updates! It’s no doubt Chad is the most positive and uplifting person I know! I get a smile on my face every time I think of him! Will keep sending that positive juju your way and have so much fun in a Florida! Love, Diana
First time on the journal and I have to say: Aja and Chad, you just energized me. It was so great reading about the positive nature Chad continues to show and how nicely Aja expresses what has been happening. Have a great trip and just enjoy yourselves...you deserve it!! Now that I am linked by my email, I look forward to more updates. God Bless, Bob Smolinski
I do appreciate these posts. Thank you Aja. Praying hard for Chad and these upcoming scans. Enjoy your time in Florida. It is hot here...