March 10, 2014: Another surgery
I think the Lord gave us a calm, quiet Sabbath to build up energy to handle Sunday. Actually, as I write this on Monday morning I'm so tired that I'm struggling to recall Sunday.
Edward slept in his crib on Saturday night calmly at first, but increasingly fitfully until 4:30 Sunday morning. At that point, he started all out wailing and I got him out of bed and held him in the recliner from then on until about 1:30 Sunday afternoon, in the process pumping far less than normal.
Let's go back to Sabbath afternoon. Edward's nurse changed the soaked dressing on his chest tube and I noticed that some tape that had been used on it previously was pretty far down the tube. I wondered whether it was pulling out, but the nurse seemed ok with it, and I didn't ask questions. His chest tube had been leaking, but everyone had been telling me that was expected with such a wiggly little guy.
In retrospect, we think that his chest tube had been pulled pretty far out since Sabbath afternoon, and that it came out even further Sunday morning around 4:30, when Edward had started really complaining. Unfortunately, we tried several other things before the nurse and I heard a wet, suction-y sound coming from Edward's chest tube around 9am. Under the dressing, it turned out that the tube had pulled out enough that one of its holes for collecting stuff from the pleural space was now out collecting air. The nurse quickly covered it with a large new dressing and went to call the surgical team to come check it out.
Dr. Theleen (anesthesiologist with a pain management fellowship under her belt) came and delivered a bolus of pain medication through Edward's epidural, with the understanding that the surgeons would be along shortly and he'd need extra pain medication to handle the pushing and prodding of the chest tube they were sure to do.
The surgeon, Dr. Schlatter (rhymes with slaughter--I kid you not), didn't show up until about 1:30pm (over four hours later). The reasons for this are unclear. He told us he came about 30 minutes after he heard we needed him, so there was obviously a breakdown in communication somewhere. He thinks our charge nurse may have been calling the wrong place to find him. In any case, after nine hours of holding a crying, moaning baby, I was feeling pretty overwhelmed and helpless. The surgeon put a lot of betadine all over the tube and tried to advance it back into Edward, but it would not go, and he ended up just pulling it out. The stitch that was meant to hold it in place was still there, but it looked like it was way too close to the end of the tube, even above the first hole, so Dr. Schlatter thinks the tube must have just worked its way past the stitch.
After that, I handed Edward to a volunteer (God bless hospital volunteers!), changed my clothes (there was betadine, chest tube fluid, and Edward's urine on them), and took a little break. I felt guilty for taking a break, because Edward couldn't take a break from his pain, and it felt disloyal for me to just run away from it, even briefly. Nevertheless, I did, and it was much needed. Kameron and my mom and Henry arrived right about then, and it was very good timing.
I want to pause here to mention that sometime while Edward was tossing and turning on my lap I checked Facebook and saw this wonderful and timely quote posted by my friend Midori:
"Never for a moment should we allow Satan to think that his power to distress and annoy is greater than the power of Christ to uphold and strengthen..." – Ellen G. White, In Heavenly Places, page 74
As I was talking to my family and crying in the hallway, I thought of that quote and it brought me great comfort. Christ does have power to uphold and strengthen!
Kameron held Edward while I wandered around downstairs with my mom and Henry. Henry especially likes the revolving front door of the hospital, so we took several trips through it to get some fresh air outside, before we had to go back upstairs, so they could get ready to take my mom to the airport.
It was very hard to say good-bye to her, and she hated to leave, but I know she'll be back if we need her. And we're so happy and grateful that Kameron's mom could fly in last night to continue the help!
When it was time for bed last night, Edward cried and cried if he was put down. His pain was so evident that the nurse called anesthesia to see if anything more could be given through his epidural. The answer came back that nothing more could be done. Even with me holding him, Edward was clearly in a lot of pain, pushing a way and guarding. He wouldn't relax, even while I held him. Eventually, Edward fell asleep on me around midnight. He had been awake almost continuously since 4:30am. He and I slept in the chair for a couple hours and then the nurse rearranged the room, so that Edward's lines would reach my bed and I held him there the rest of the night, which was more comfortable.
Edward has been sleeping almost continuously today. I don't know for sure, but I think it's possible that his chest tube pain has finally subsided and he's making up for all the sleep he has been losing all week.
Because his chest tube is now gone, we can no longer do the feeding test we were supposed to do today, so Edward is still not allowed to eat. They did an x-ray last night and another this morning, and the surgeons say fluid appears to be increasing, so surgery to do the thoracic duct ligation is scheduled for tomorrow (Tuesday, March 11) at 12:30pm. Dr. Robertson is going to come by in the morning to discuss a better pain plan going forward. Edward will have a chest tube in each side, so the potential for pain will increase.
I'm going home, now, to have a normal nighttime routine with Henry while Kameron stays here with Edward. Then I'll be back for the night.
Thank you, in advance, for your prayers. We ask specifically that you pray that the surgery will be successful at stoping the chyle leak (this type of surgery has an 80%-90% success rate), that there will be no more complications to keep us here longer, and that Edward's pain will be managed more successfully after this next surgery than it was after the first.

Comments (46)
Linda and I will pray even more! Bless you two and may The Lord sustain you and keep you!
I am praying for you and your sweet baby.
Please know you are all so very much in our thoughts and prayers. We especially pray for strength for each of you. God loves you all so much and treasures little Edward. He will continue to surround you with His love as we will do as well. Ruth and Walt Parish
I'm praying for you all daily and am so glad Ikey is able to be there with you all! Hang in there!
Oh, precious Emily!! How strong your faith is. Lord Jesus, You know the pain this little child is suffering. You feel the pain of his parents as well. Please Father, I know that You have a plan and that plan is the best for all involved, but I am beseeching You to guide the physician's hand tomorrow as he performs the surgery to stop the chyle leak. I ask that You be right there by his side and direct his hands as well as his thoughts and give him the directions to make this surgery 100% successful. I know dear Lord that nothing is imossible for You. I do not doubt You and I trust You completely, but sometimes I just don't understand Your ways. So I am also asking that You give us all the wisdom to understand that Your ways are best and You make no mistakes. Father, be patient with us for not understanding and give us all strength, especially Emily and Kameron. Give them peace and PLEASE give little Edward peace and comfort. I thank You for all Your promises and thank You for the miracles You have already performed. Father, these things I am asking in Your Holy Name and I thank You for hearing and answering my prayer. Amen.
We are continuing to pray for little Edward and for strength for you and Kameron. I am so glad that Nancy and Ikey are available to help you.. All of our family will be remembering Edward in prayer tomorrow at 12:30. Thanks for the updates.
May our God of heaven wrap his arms of love around you to sustain you and your family and to keep you close to Him during this difficult time and always - just as he did for Daniel when he was put into the lion's den. I'm praying for all of you as you go through this difficult time. I'll be praying especially during the surgery tomorrow.
Oh, Emilie and Kameron......I was so sorry to read this latest posting and to hear about the much less than satisfactory pain management and the need for the surgery. Our thoughts and prayers are with you right now for your strength and for Edward's surgery. Thank you for the continued updates. I know how hard it is to watch your little boy as he is going through this. It is the hardest thing in the world. I hope you can get some rest tonight and that tomorrow's surgery will go smoothly and they can figure out how to keep his pain under better control. Just feel so sorry for him that he is having to go through this ordeal.
I am so sorry for the present burdens but still so thankful that the future looks positive! Praying for pain relief and courage and strength!
I am so sorry that Edward has to go through so much pain and you have to go through so much heartache. Will pray that he can relax tonight, get some sleep and that you will be able to get some sleep too. Praying that his upcoming surgery will be successful. God knows your needs and he will sustain you. "Casting all your care upon Him, for He careth for you." 1 Peter 5:7
Emilie and Pastor Kameron, Deb and I will also pray more often. Not that you will forget that "all things work together for good to those who love God"; but you both know why this is true; Rom 8:32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things". God might seem as if He is silent, but I know that He is the closest to us when we are hurting; He will never leave us nor forsake us. Just know that all of us that are praying are holding up your arms just as Aron held up Moses' arms! We all are awaiting the day Edward is pain free again. I, as would most any parent would gladly bear Little Edwards pain! In a heart beat! We love and miss you guy's, all of you! Love Jer & Deb
Oh Emilie. Thank God for your peaceful Sabbath. You, Edward and family are thought of and prayed for so often. We will pray even more often and especially tonight and during tomorrow's surgery. Sending a big hug!
More, more prayers...................
Praying for you! :-)
I am happy that you and Henry get to have your night time routine. This all most be hard on Henry too. We are praying for you all.
Praying for you!
Oh, Emilie! We're so so sorry! It must be soooo hard for you all... We continue to keep your family in our prayers. Praying for pain relief and a good night's sleep for Edward, and a restful night for you, Emilie; you need it so bad. Praying also that the surgery will be a success tomorrow and that Edward won't have too much pain afterwards. May the Lord continue to sustain you and may you feel Him very near. Love from the 2 of us to the 4 of you!
Dearest Emilie and Pastor Kameron, my heart is heavy for all Edward and you are going through. Our comfort is that we know God is in control and He will guide you through this crucible. We love you all so very dearly, I'm praying for God's comfort for Edward, peace for you and that He will guide the surgeon's hands and He will heal Edward fully. Blessings to you all, Marjorie
Our precious little family., just a note to let you know that your church family here are in prayer for you! Hold to our Father's Hand! Our love Bill and Mavis
I am so sorry for you. My heart goes out to you. Little Edward is so young, innocent, precious. Hang on, "this too shall pass". Praise God for the strength He gives. Thankfully you know God and have the faith of Jesus. Thankfully Edward is young. Thankfully the prognosis is good. Thankfully you are at a place that knows how to deal with this type of thing. Thankfully your Mom's can be present to help the two of you and Henry. Thankfully there is a definite date set for the surgery. Prayers will be sent for healing, strength, patience, and understanding. Praying for your Mom's too as this is hard to watch their children and grand children go through this. God will be with you.
I am sending up prayers for all of you.
Our love and prayers will continue to be with you. Hang in there... Thank you for the detailed updates - for being so open and vulnerable about this very personal journey your family is experiencing.
Have never for a moment stopped praying and will continue until all is well again.
Praying for Edward daily, and petitioning God to grant you and your family strength to make it through this trial.
We are sorry to hear about this setback. Our hearts ached for each of you as we read your latest update. Our prayers continue for each you as the Lord knows just what you need. We pray for Edward's caregivers as well. We love you. Uncle Dick and Aunt Marcia
The entire Beatty family (Darren, Gaylen, Ella & Claire) are praying for your family each day. Though we can't imagine how tired you must be, we are greatly appreciative for the time you've taken to share how Edward is doing each day. Sending all love to you.
Oh Emilie, my heart aches for you all. So sorry for all this extended trauma and lack of pain control. As a nurse, I know how complex and difficult it can be at times getting the help you need in the hospital. I'm glad you got a few minutes away to breath and cry - don't feel guilty for this. Just keep taking one moment at a time. The verse comes to my mind, "When he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold." Job 23:10. You all are obviously going through the fire. I'm praying for you and Kameron, Henry and little Edward that God will continue to uphold you ALL through these rough waters. Will be praying especially for tomorrows surgery that God's hand will be upon this process. Thanks so much for your updates, for being real and sharing what you are going through with all of us so that we can prayer more specifically and help lift up your arms from afar. Through the hardships, the hope and peace you have in Christ continues to shine through. We love you! Hugs and prayers. Mel
Velma and J Arthur To Pastor Kameron and Emilie The Master Healer, Jesus. He gave sight to the blind, He healed Peter's mother-in-law, He made the lame walk, He healed the lepers, He cast out demons, He healed a royal official's son and He will heal your son, (Baby Edward) too. There is a brighter day ahead and that spells HEALING. We are praying that Jesus will guide the medical team to do their best while attending Baby Edward; also praying that Jesus will stop the pain Baby Edward has been experiencing and asking Him to give you strength and rest. Keep the faith! Blessings.
Emilie and Kameron, we are praying out here in Idaho for you and Edward and Henry. Thank you so much for keeping us updated with the website and the pictures. We will especially be remembering you tomorrow as Edward faces another surgery. Sending hugs. John and Marta Stone
Pastor, Emilie and family, all of us that are parents, and grandparents are amazed at your strength to endure, and still take the time to share with all of us that are hurting with you, as our heavenly Father is also your strength is definitely a gift from God. We are with you and your family.. May God be with Edward, and the surgery team at 12:30, and you all.. Love to you all..
Praying for the surgery today. May the Angels of the Lord continue to encamp all around Edward and you.
Dear Emilie, Kameron and family, I know that in saying this, I have not gone through what you are going through--a child suffering through awful, terrifying pain (and feeling totally helpless to alleviate that pain). But that is the point of the Christian life--'trusting in the Lord and patiently expecting God to fulfill the promises in his Word and to strengthen us through life's difficulties. Even the strongest people get tired at times, but His power and strength never diminishes. He is never too tired or too busy to sustain his people. He is especially drawn to Edward and his illness. The little ones are so precious to the Savior. The God who loves us and wants the best for us. We need not worry because we are confident that his purposes are right (the glass which we are looking through is less transparent than we would like it to be). Though God is immense and at times seems so distant, our concerns are most certainly a priority for Him. It is understandable if you may be struggling with all of this but remember, "those who trust in the LORD will find new strength." Isaiah 40: 12-30. May God be with you, the team of surgeons and little Edward today as you all face another challenge, Isaiah 40: 12-31 Morgan Hellgren
I am so sorry you all have to go through this. I know you would much rather be hurting as parents than see him hurting! "God never leads His children otherwise than they would choose to be led, if they could see the end from the beginning, and discern the glory of the purpose which they are fulfilling as co-workers with Him." Praying for you today!
Asking God to uphold and strengthen Emilie and Kameron, and to please heal little Edward but for now keep him from pain as much as possible. We continue to pray for Edward, you and your family. May the Great Physician heal Edward and hold you in His arms. Our prayers continue...
If I could hold you and Edward I would. I am holding you in prayer and am reminded that the power of prayer is in the ONE that hears it not the one who prays it. (Martin Luther) While little Edward is in surgery today keep Ex. 14:14 close to heart."the Lord will fight for you you need only be still." While it has to be one of the hardest things for a parent to do when our wee ones are hurting the Lord will fight for you...
Velma Sanders Emilie, Just want to tell you that you are not alone in this trial. I feel your pain, hurt and helplessness. I will be calling out your name, praying for your strength, praying for Baby Edward's pain, praying for the medical team, praying that everything will work out find, and do not forget, Jesus is with you now and always.
I work with Alescia at the University. I just wanted you to know that I have been praying daily for Edward since I learned of his surgery. I read this verse from the Message Bible everyday. I hope it brings comfort. Charlotte Henningsen Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don't try to figure out everything on your own. Listen to God's voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He's the One who will keep you on track.
Im so sorry to read of the aweful expierence and horrible pain Edward has endured this weekend. I will pray hard for a successful second surgery and for the pain to subside. Hang in there and be strong for the Lord will be with you always.
Emily and Kameron, I wanted to share a quote from Sister White from In Heavenly Places, "In Christ’s name our petitions ascend to the Father. He intercedes in our behalf, and the Father lays open all the treasures of His grace for our appropriation, to enjoy and communicate to others. Ask in My name, Christ says. I do not say that I will pray the Father for you, for the Father Himself loveth you, because you have loved Me. Make use of My name. This will give your prayers efficiency, and the Father will give you the riches of His grace. Wherefore ask and ye shall receive, that your joy May be full. What condescension! What a privilege is granted us! Christ is the connecting link between God and man.... As we approach God through the virtue of Christ’s merits, we are clothed with His priestly vestments. He places us close by His side, encircling us with His human arm, while with His divine arm He grasps the throne of the Infinite. He puts His merits as sweet incense in a censer in our hands in order to encourage our petitions. He promises to hear and answer our supplications. Yes; Christ has become the medium of prayer between man and God. He also has become the medium of blessing between God and man. He has combined divinity and humanity." This was a part of the devotional this morning from Revival and Reformation and I just thought how much it applied to the two of you and the trials you are experiencing right now. It made me feel confident that God truly hears ours as well as your petitions and He is right now working on winning this battle for you. He is truly God Almighty, the Great General who is in charge of the conflice of the ages. Remember this is just one battle in this great conflict and also remember that Christ is the Victor. He loves you all so much!!!
My heart aches for you, reading your last post. Thank you for sharing with us even amidst your exhaustion. We are praying throughout the day today for Edward (and family) and especially that his surgery goes well. ". . .He also will hear their cry and will save them. . ." Psalms 145: 18, 19. May you feel God's loving arms around you today.
We are continuing to pray for Edward. "For in You, O Lord, I hope; You will hear, O Lord my God." Psalm 38:15
Kameron, Emilie, Henry, and Edward, we're sorry about the tough days you have had. I will call for special prayer in our GC departmental worship on Wednesday morning. May the Great Physician guide the doctors' minds and hands to help them to do a good and thorough job on the repairs. And, may your whole family experience the reality of this special verse during this difficult time: "Don't panic. I'm with you. There's no need to fear for I'm your God. I'll give you strength. I'll help you. I'll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you" (Isaiah 41:10, Message). We love you and will pray a lot, May-Ellen (& Gaspar)
The Lord must have meant that quotation for you! I don't post very often, as you know. We are praying that the Lord will uphold and strengthen you. Lots of love!
We continue to earnestly pray for Edward and the whole family! May you feel His loving arms around you and His sweet Spirit comforting and strengthening you today. I can only imagine the pain and suffering you all are going thru...take courage...The Lord will uphold you with His right hand! Praying especially for a peaceful rest tonight for both Edward and mommy.
When my husband, Gary, was in a car accident years ago, he endured several surgeries and spent many months in the hospital. We found such hope and courage in these verses from Isaiah 40:28-31. I pray they lift your spirits today as well: Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth Does not become weary or tired. His understanding is inscrutable. He gives strength to the weary, And to him who lacks might He increases power. Though youths grow weary and tired, and vigorous young men stumble badly, Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles; They will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not become weary. We are praying for your sweet, exhausted family today, and especially little Edward. May the Creator of the ends of the earth guide the medical team during surgery and deliver him from the complications and pain he is suffering with.
Precious Emi;y, I just want you to know that we pray day and night for little Edward and for you, Kameron and Henry. This is an extremely dfficult trial that you are experiencing and Satan is attacking both Kameron and you because he is so determined to stop the good work the two of you are doing for God's Glory. But I know that Jesus is very near to the four of you. 1 John 5:4 tells us " . . .this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our FAITH." This promise I hold to tenaciously. God will not abandon the DeVasher family, but will hold you strongly and fill you with wisdom, strength, and peace that will get you trough this trial. Of that I am sure.