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Posted 2015-12-30T02:54:26Z

Happy New Year and Home Sweet Home

Hey gang o' mine, I hope this finds you all well and that you had a wonderful holiday surrounded by loved ones. Our holiday did not look the way we had imagined it, but it was most definitely filled with love and that's really all that matters as far as I'm concerned. Surgery on 12/15 went well and we just received word yesterday from the surgeon that the pathology results are back and there are healthy margins around the tumor which is SPECTACULAR news! We still don't know exactly what that means as far as further treatment goes, but the fact that they got everything out is a huge relief. We will find out more about the next course of treatment over the next few weeks. The results of the surgery have left us optimistic about my appearance, as well. I think that everyone that has seen me would agree that I look significantly better then expected. I guess an entire bone from my leg (and10 hours) gave my magician of a plastic surgeon all that he needed to completely re-create my upper jaw. There will be quite a few surgeries ahead but the ground work has been done and I am grateful and relieved. There is still lots of swelling and 2 incisions on my face that need to heal (as well as an incision that runs knee to ankle on my left leg) but I am feeling really good about the direction we're heading. I was able to come home on 12/23 after 8 days in the hospital (which involved a struggle to manage pain, a difficult tracheotomy, precious nurses, a room with a stunning view of Philly and strands of white twinkle lights, Christmas music and an extra bed where I was lucky enough to find a loved one every single night). It has been a challenge, but Nurse Nancy Pants (NNP) and I are finally settling into a schedule here at home. We have a hospital bed set up downstairs and are managing the feeding tube and meds every few hours. The first few days we were like Lucy and Ethel in the chocolate factory but we have found our way with the support of each other and others, especially my sister (who has been an absolute rockstar from day 1). Ok, im about to crash so I will sign off. Thank you for your cards, gifts, meal trains, jokes and funny you tube videos. You continue to support me in ways I never could have imagined. Happy New Year to all. Xoxo, Kaytie

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Comments (9)

  • Tasha Knob
    Tasha Knob

    Kaytie O... You are so well loved!! Your precious spirit is abundantly evident in everything you share. You are in my heart, thoughts and prayers, as are your family and all who love you. Blessings to you sweet Kaytie!!

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Aida del Valle
    Aida del Valle

    There are few like you, dear Kaytie. You inspire us to gratitude and love of life with your every word! All my love to you from Cali and may you be abundantly blessed in the year to come, sweetheart! 😍

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Joyce Carper
    Joyce Carper

    I am thinking of you and hope you continue to heal!

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Jennifer Urbonas
    Jennifer Urbonas

    Great update! I needed that, as I am sure many others did. I have had you in my thoughts and prayers throughout this time and I pray you get stronger and healthier every minute of every day. God bless your Mom and sister, and you!!!

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Barbara Whitley
    Barbara Whitley

    Hi Kaytie, I am a good friend of Layne Hackett who I'm lucky enough to also be my neighbor. I just want to say that your spirit and positive attitude is to be applauded, I am pulling for you and will add you to my prayers... Your new friend, Barb Whitley!

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Layne Hackett
    Layne Hackett

    Hi Kaytie, As you can see from the above, your courage and spirit spread to others whom you haven't even met...but touch deeply. I am so glad to hear from you, to learn that your margins a clear, and that reconstructive surgery sounds promising. If anyone deserves the very best, it's you. I hold you in my heart 24/7. What a blessing that you were able to spend Christmas at home. For that, I am very thankful. Much love to you! Layne

    10 years ago · Reply
  • susan rubin
    susan rubin

    kaytie... beyond thrilled to hear things are moving along as well as possible...as always your amazing strength and courage is not to be believed .... I pray that 2016 is especially good to you and your family... my thoughts and prayers go out to you, nurse nancy, coleen and tim... with much love , prayers and support... XOXO

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Betsy Welsh
    Betsy Welsh

    YOU GO GIRL!!

    10 years ago · Reply
  • Susan Hopkins
    Susan Hopkins

    I love you, Kaytie girl... I was thinking of you earlier this afternoon and sent you the biggest ball of love-energy I could create inside of my aura... I sent it out rolling your way... I hope you received it without it knocking you off your feet - it was pretty darn big! HUGS AND HUGS AND HUGS....

    10 years ago · Reply