New Treatment Plan |6-23-16|
Mike's appointment with his new doctor from the transplant team, Dr. Shune (Shoo-nay), was yesterday afternoon at 3:00. I could tell I was nervous about the appointment because I pretty much walked in circles around the house all day. I couldn't focus on getting anything done. I went to the grocery store, but forgot my list, and came home with 3 cases of Gatorade, some pop (save your judgement, i'm in crisis mode!) orange juice, milk, bottled water, iced coffee, chicken, and bananas. Was that my subconscious telling me we're dehydrated over here or something? I'm laughing about it now, because, what else would I do? For the record, we cooked the chicken last night, and Reid has eaten almost all of the bananas.
We were going to find out the results of the biopsy and get the new treatment plan, which had us playing over every scenario in our heads on the way down to the appointment. Best case: The part that was spreading on his last scan was inflammatory tissue caused by the chemo. Perhaps he would just need one more round of the ICE chemo and then be a candidate for transplant. That's what I was hoping for!
This was our first visit to the Westwood KU Cancer Center. It is down by KU Med, so a little further of a drive than the North Campus. This will be our new "medical home" now, as Dr. Shune and their team is taking over Mike's care. I feel like we didn't get to say a proper goodbye to all of our friends at North Kansas City Hospital. The nurses, doctors, pharmacist- they were all so wonderful to us!.... and the food was much better there! :)
Are you impatiently waiting to find out the results? Welcome to my world yesterday. Ha.
Anyways, we met with Dr. Shune and the transplant coordinator after what felt like the longest day ever. The results of the biopsy ended up being the same diagnosis, Grey Zone Lymphoma. So we're 3/3 on that diagnosis.
Treatment Plan:
They're going to start Mike on a new chemo called R-GemOx tomorrow morning. The good news is that it will be a single day, outpatient infusion, although it will take the entire day. No packing an overnight bag! That's cool with us.
They want to do a round of this chemo and then scan him (CT scan) to see if there is any improvement. It is a fast acting chemo that they said would show some damage to the cancer after one round. (As long as it works). We are glad that they will know sooner, rather than later, if this is the right course or if we will need to switch to another chemo.
The goal is to get the cancer that is rapidly, and aggressively growing in his chest, reduced by 50% so that he can get a Stem Cell Transplant. I have news on that, too.
They have decided that he isn't a good candidate for an autologous stem cell transplant, meaning that they will use his own stem cells (bone marrow). He is going to go straight to an allogeneic transplant, (Donor). Mike's brother is the best possible match, so he will be tested right away. After that, they go through the registry to see if there is anyone out there who has submitted their DNA (just a quick cheek swab) and has 10/10 proteins in their DNA that match up to the 10 proteins in Mike's DNA.
We asked them about having people come to the office to be tested specifically for Mike. Their response was, "We don't do that, we encourage anyone who has the heart to donate, to join the registry." We totally get it though, that not everyone wants to join, but I really urge you. You have the power to give someone a healthy immune system, to save their life. It is virtually painless, an outpatient procedure. It does not cost you, except a little time off work, perhaps.
So, here we are. Starting a new chemo tomorrow, hoping it works, hoping we are headed in the right direction. Ultimately, hoping for a DONOR! If someone out there has a healthy immune system and matches up to Mike, we sure would love to borrow your healthy cells to help his body fight off all this crap that is attacking him. His immune system, his body's "surveillance system" has been fired. We are looking for new help. His kids would sure appreciate it, too. As would I.
XOXO
Robin

Comments (13)
Love and continued prayers. Hang in there Robin... Love ya Louise
Prayers, prayers and more prayers for you all. Thanks for the updates....always thinking of you guys.
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Sending love and prayers for all.
Hugging you all as tight as I can from here! I know this is the hardest point in your life so far but just try to think of the big picture and the remission party! Positive vibes headed your way! Love you!
We will continue to pray for not only Mike but all of you! Hang in there!! You have the "big guy--God" on your side!!
Praying the new chemo works fast and you find a donor for his transplant! Also praying for peace and patience for all of you, God knows his plan and will be with you every step of the way!
You guys are nothing less than warriors , I admire your positive attitudes, as it must be so difficult when you get knocked down . However you are always ready for the next step , with no room for despair ! Continue to stay strong and hopeful , and know that a multitude of prayers are a constant for Mike and you and your children. Much love to all !
Praying this will be the chemo that gets Mike on track. Glad they will know so soon also. Hope Mike's brother will be a match for him. Would be a donor if I could but am too OLD. You guys are real troopers, prayers and thoughts for all of you everyday.
Hey Mike and Robin....thanks for the update....you guys are in my thoughts. Here are some jokes to put a smile on your face: 1. A priest, a rabbi and a vicar walk into a bar. The barman says, ''Is this some kind of joke?'' 2. A three-legged dog walks into a saloon in the Old West. He slides up to the bar and announces: ''I'm looking for the man who shot my paw. 3. Why did the policeman smell bad? He was on duty. and a bonus one.... 4. What kind of bees make milk instead of honey? Boobies
Always in my heart and prayers.
Mike, Robin, & the gang. Still Praying....this is all so crazy but that is life I now know. Didn't get it when I was younger. Get it now. Hang TOUGH. I like Mick Remondino's jokes. I am going to steal them cuz I am terrible at jokes. About to text a cop the policeman smelling bad joke now. All those were especially good or I just needed those at this moment. Ha! You are blessed to have so MANY pulling for you. Just keep going and don't overthink all the crazy. One moment at a time. LOVE YOU ALL!
Robin, my husband went through the stem cell transplant in November 2015 and his sister was a match. She went in for four days in a row to get a shot of nurpringe in the tummy and on the five day she went in and got hooked up to the machine. (It's just like giving blood) the machine spins the stem cells out of the blood and then puts the blood back into her and the stem cells go in a bag. Once they get enough stem cells (like over a million) then they put that into his port. It was a very interesting process. I wish you the best in this journey.