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Posted 2016-08-10T18:24:10Z

August 10, 2016

Everything is going "well" right now. 馃槉

This past week has been recovery time - our immune system was crushed so we've been working on that as well as combatting the throat sores and the nausea/vomiting.
While everything is relative of course, the past two days have been "good" days for Cole. He hasn't gotten sick, the throat sores are feeling better finally, we've been taking the variety of medications for various reasons, working on the immune system, feeds, and other things too much to break down.

We went 72 hours without a fever and then had one each night since last Wednesday except for last night. The fevers can be attributed to a variety of things so it's too hard to pinpoint. The fevers could just be from the tumors (like before), the chemo, from being neutropenic (low white blood cell count), all of the above, or something else. But overall, the fever trend has improved generally speaking which is great. And we still aren't needing oxygen except for an occasional "blow by" which is fantastic.

We started chemo a day late, today, because one must go 24 hours without being neutropenic before starting chemo. Here's your educational moment of the day: 馃

Neutropenia is a low level of neutrophils, a type of white blood cell. All white blood cells help the body fight infection. Neutrophils fight infection by destroying harmful bacteria and fungi or yeast that invade the body. Neutrophils are made in the bone marrow.
Neutropenia is a common side effect from chemo so it is expected. People who have neutropenia have a higher risk of developing serious infections. This is because they do not have enough neutrophils to destroy organisms that cause infection. This has happened after our last two rounds of chemo so Cole takes shots each night until his white blood count is back to normal along with antibiotics.

OK, educational moment over. :-) So Cole's body was as ready as it could be to start chemo today so we were ready to rock and roll. He will have it today and tomorrow for this week and then we work on recovery again. His doctor added a more aggressive medication to combat nausea/vomiting, which is controlled by anesthesia, so we're hoping it helps him more this time and he won't feel or get as sick.

While there are still ups and downs, we are definitely focusing on the positives. And to see Cole more "active" the past two days, playing games, talking more, and just more engaging, has warmed our hearts. We have even seen moments of the "spirited" Cole that we know, and seeing him smile and act more "normal" has been wonderful.

We know the chemo will bring his body back down again, but we must believe that things are working on the inside. We may have a CT scan in a few weeks if there's a chance we get to go home. We just have to take it a week at a time, but mostly a day at a time. Clinically, Cole looks good and it doesn't "appear" that things are worsening. But again, only the scans will tell. So we will anxiously await that time and pray that we see even a small positive difference from his previous scans, and that things haven't spread or grown. We still have a ways before we test the bone marrow so we don't even want to think about that still.

The continued support we've received from everyone has been amazing. We are beyond grateful and blessed for the numerous prayer warriors Cole has on his side. We appreciate you all!

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Comments (20)

  • Tracy Bedell
    Tracy Bedell

    Always keeping you in thoughts and prayers, Shanda. I appreciate the educational moments, too. I've learned a great deal from your posts. God's grace is so mighty. Love ya'll!

    9 years agoReply
  • Terry Turner
    Terry Turner

    Continued prayers.

    9 years agoReply
  • Sharon Farris
    Sharon Farris

    It warmed my heart seeing Cole last night. He has really good color and is looking good. I'm thankful we were able to visit on a "good" day. I think it was good for the boys. Loved seeing Cole coloring, writing and being able to visit. Continued prayers for Cole and the family.

    9 years agoReply
  • Jennifer Berquist
    Jennifer Berquist

    Shanda, thank you for educating us. It's all about holding on to the positive moments of each day. They help you get through it and move on to the next day. Please keep sending updates as you can. There's many of us out there praying for all of you. Sending you much strength!

    9 years agoReply
  • Joanie Stephens
    Joanie Stephens

    Lit a candle at church for Cole. Keeping him and your family in my prayers. Thanks for the updates!

    9 years agoReply
  • Gloria Hornung
    Gloria Hornung

    So glad that Cole is more engaging and seemingly feeling better. Sending prayers that God's chemo is curing Cole's cancer. Loved your medical instruction. It makes me understand more of what is going on in Cole's little system. Keep fighting cuz we are fighting for you and with you. Gloria

    9 years agoReply
  • Beth Stanley
    Beth Stanley

    Thanks for the update, Shanda! So great to hear "the positives" and just know we are praying for you ALL! You are doing an amazing job, Mom! Be blessed! "Keep on, keepin on!"

    9 years agoReply
  • Debbie Luman
    Debbie Luman

    Shanda, thank you for the update, as always will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!

    9 years agoReply
  • Jim Marchiony
    Jim Marchiony

    Greetings, Haydens, from the Marchiony Prayer Warriors. Our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly. Wishing all the best news for you.

    9 years agoReply
  • Emily Malin
    Emily Malin

    Thanks for sharing updates. Prayers won't stop until he is running fast on the field or beach 👍🏻 鉂わ笍

    9 years agoReply
  • Lubbock Smith III
    Lubbock Smith III

    Thanks for the update on Cole and everything else that's going on. Hope and pray he continues to become more active!

    9 years agoReply
  • Jean Nilges
    Jean Nilges

    We are glad to hear that Cole has been having a few 'good' moments. Thankful for the small things. We continue to pray for Cole and your family each day.

    9 years agoReply
  • Dawn James
    Dawn James

    Thinking of you all and continued prayers!!

    9 years agoReply
  • Sharon Thompson
    Sharon Thompson

    Thank you for the update Shanda. So glad Cole's had some good days. Continued prayers every day for all of you.

    9 years agoReply
  • Heather Roney
    Heather Roney

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet boy during this difficult time. #TeamCole

    9 years agoReply
  • Mary Lois Yates
    Mary Lois Yates

    Continue to lift You, Steve and Cole In prayer. Report is encouraging as to hear of Cole feeling better. Your progress post help us to know exactly how to pray.😍 Mary Lois

    9 years agoReply
  • Lisa Hehman
    Lisa Hehman

    Praying and sending positive energy always. love you.... Miss you.... I need to get some t-shirts and bracelets!!!! I'll email you!

    9 years agoReply
  • Laura Weigand
    Laura Weigand

    Glad you're having a better week... lots of love and continued prayers;)

    9 years agoReply
  • Emily Reimer
    Emily Reimer

    Thanks for the update. Cole is on my mind and heart daily. Praying for complete healing for Cole and strength to the parents! May you experience blessings through the trials.

    9 years agoReply
  • Adrienne Kordalski
    Adrienne Kordalski

    Thanks for the update. We are always thinking of you guys and appreciate hearing how the little guy is doing. We continue to pray. Lots of love-A

    9 years agoReply