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Posted 2019-05-20T00:41:00Z

abominable abdomen

Lots of pain yesterday.  I cut the opioids back asap because I am worried about constipation.  The pain may force my hand, but I'm trying to hold out on lesser meds.  The lower part of my tummy feels just fine; you would never know two lymph nodes were removed, although I do have mild numbness over the tops of my thighs, which is unpleasant and I hope goes away.  My upper right quadrant feels OK, too, but the upper left, not so much.  Apparently, that was where all the parts came out, and that's where Dr. R removed the last pieces of my peritoneal lining.  Its very sore, with a tight pinch by my stomach.  I can feel all the food moving around in my tummy and transverse colon -- no fun.   I think the surgeons gave me a super tight tummy tuck as an added bonus!  I hope I can come to terms with my new body and I hope it's a body I want to continue living in.  Despite the discomfort, I enjoyed visiting; thank you to everyone who stopped by this weekend.  Especially grateful for my parents who flew in from Colorado to help.  

Mr. Cooper was desperate to snuggle and was so frustrated I kept deflecting him off my tummy, but we came to a compromise.   I might not post much until we get the genetic testing back and there is some real info to convey.  I look forward to feeling better and having friends visits. I need frequent, but short walks, so email if you're in the 'hood and well take a spin.  

hugs, MK  

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Comments (12)

  • Heller Lee
    Heller Lee

    It was great to see you two days in a row, and looking so much better on the second day. I hope it's a continuous trend! I will check in again -- wooden bowl plus more!

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Jennifer Vinton
    Jennifer Vinton

    Wishes to you for speedy healing! XO

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Mollie Sheely
    Mollie Sheely

    Hoping your pain eases quickly. I’m sure you’ll be up and moving around in no time. You are amazing! Sending love across the miles!

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Jessie Altstatt
    Jessie Altstatt

    looking forward to seeing you tomorrow morning! Sorry the oh-so-rare Yellow-Throated Warbler got between us this afternoon.

    7 years ago · Reply
    • Michelle Elyse Kendall
      Michelle Elyse Kendall

      its all good, today was busy and I am so glad you saw the bird!

      7 years ago · Reply
  • Kathy Whitley
    Kathy Whitley

    Hang in there! Meditate the heck out of yourself!

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Molly
    Molly

    Sorry you are feeling pain. Glad you are getting some fur baby snuggles, good medicine! ❤️🐱🐾

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Mary Ellen Tiffany
    Mary Ellen Tiffany

    M What an incredible positive force you have created for yourself on this journey. I hope the pain subsides soon and the reports back are good ones. I had dinner with your parents last night and asked that they give you a healing hug for me. Thinking of you and sending another healing hug along virtually.

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Joyce Margolin
    Joyce Margolin

    Enjoyed seeing your great smile as you walked down the street today.

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Shelley Hoffmire
    Shelley Hoffmire

    Where is your Visiting Teacher when you need one?! Sorry I'm so far away. I'm sending love and healing prayers your way.

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Nancy Rogers
    Nancy Rogers

    What is that? A kitty cat eye mask with lashes? Sending all healing love your way. Xx Nan

    7 years ago · Reply
  • Maria C
    Maria C

    Michelle--You are such an exemplar of strength and fortitude. I made a similar decision on the pain meds when I broke my wrist a few years ago. Day 3 I was on advil and ice treatments only! I don't know whether this suggestion would be good for you or not, but my mom is being treated with a combination of tylenol and advil. Last year when I was fretting over whether I was doing the right thing in limiting the opioids for her (not good for the geriatric brain), one of the rehab nurses told me there are recent studies demonstrating that the tylenol/advil combo gives nearly the same level of pain relief as opioids with fewer side effects. Maybe something to check on with your doctor? At any rate, it's a perfectly good decision to limit those painkillers, or to go back on them if it's too much to do without. You'll heal in whatever way is best for you! Love and Hugs, Maria

    7 years ago · Reply