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Posted 2020-11-27T23:05:00Z

Diagnosis Day

I admire people that are amazing at remembering dates, times, places... They make it look so easy. Just ask my wife and daughter, this is not a skill that I naturally possess. So it should be no surprise that the 5th anniversary of Derek’s diagnosis date caught me slightly off guard. However, not for the reason I just stated, but instead for how the calendar happens to land this year. Normally this particular anniversary is quite easy for me to remember. Even though I usually get the actual calendar date wrong.[...]

Posted 2020-08-20T23:01:00Z

4 years

Four year ago today, we woke up early to check on Derek. It had become routine. We would check to see if he was doing alright, roll him to one side or the other, see if he needed anything, and make sure he was as comfortable as possible. The doctors had warned us about potential seizures. However, besides the smalls one he had that initially brought us to the ER, until the night before Derek died, he never had any. But that last night he had two, one small and one large. After a while we were able to stabilize the large one and he was able to sleep. Just to make sure he was comfortable, we woke up early in the morning at 3:00 to give him some pain meds. Then at 4:15 we rolled him on his right side.[...]

Posted 2018-08-20T05:06:51Z

2 years

It is quite strange, but it is next to impossible for me to determine if the last 2 years have gone by quickly or very slow. Not a single day has gone by that I have not thought about Derek. Today is the 2nd year since Derek left Earth and went to reside in Heaven with Jesus. I can only surmise what wonders he has seen, what knowledge he has gained, what experiences he has experienced. It must be amazing. If I was honest, I would have to say I have a little, maybe a lot, of Heavenly jealously of him. I believe he is the lucky one. No longer feeling obligated to chase after meaningless trinkets, no longer balancing the needs of life and the pains of the body. All that is gone. What freedom! We only have a shadow of freedom here.[...]

Posted 2016-11-25T20:21:00Z

diagnosis day

Hello,

Today marks the one year of the day that we found out that Derek had a brain tumor. (We found out the day after Thanksgiving.  Last year that day was on the 27th of November, so I am not totally sure what day is the "real" anniversary. But I am sure this is the day we will remember.)  Today was the day he was first diagnosed.  It is so hard to believe that it has been a year from when this all started.  Those first couple of days and weeks were just a whirlwind.[...]

Posted 2016-08-22T21:54:00Z

Derek Zell Young's Obituary and funeral arrangements

Derek Zell Young was born the son of Ryan Zell and Angela Young on October 21, 2007 in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He was baptized into the Christian faith on December 20, 2007 at Peace Lutheran Church in Rio Rancho, New Mexico.  By God's grace though that sacrament God made him his own dear child. By that same grace God kept him faithful to his Savior to the time of his death.[...]

Posted 2016-08-17T14:55:59Z

Pretty much the same

Hello all

So things are still about the same yet still slowing down.  Derek still can't move much.  What he can move is limited to his left side.  I was stretching his legs the other day and I was moving his right foot and then I saw him move his left foot on his own.  He was doing it on purpose. Even though it was small, it showed me he was trying.[...]