Obituary, Memorial and Memories
I meant to post this Monday, but somehow it escaped me. Korbin's Dad wrote the obituary. He didn't want it to be like all the other ones- he wanted it to be unique, like Korbin, and so it is. [...]
I meant to post this Monday, but somehow it escaped me. Korbin's Dad wrote the obituary. He didn't want it to be like all the other ones- he wanted it to be unique, like Korbin, and so it is. [...]
Wednesday night was a tough night- Korbin had some pain and we had a hard time managing it effectively at home, so Thursday evening we discussed it and decided that it would be a good idea to admit Korbin to Agrace. When we first admitted him for pain control to Meriter he made it very clear that he did not want to die in the hospital. When we went to Agrace after that we were both so impressed with the facility, and especially the amazing nurses and doctors that he told me that if he had to go back there at the end, he was okay with that. I'm so glad that we did, because they were amazing with Korbin, and made his last days so much more comfortable that I could have at home. [...]
I know I said “No news is good news” and that’s been pretty much true. When we decided to stop treatment Korbin said he wanted to be home, and have no more pain. Korbin is still at home, and his pain is being well managed by our wonderful doctors and nurses. He is ready to go, and we’re just waiting for his body to catch up with his mind. In the meantime we are keeping him very comfortable, and enjoying all the time we can with him. We have his hospital bed in the living room, and we spend lots of time just being together as he goes between being alert and resting. He’s on some pretty strong pain medications and sleeps most of the time- but if we start talking about computer problems he usually chimes right in. He has great hearing![...]